Loomis Family News

Ever Feel the Need to "Unplug?"

2011-10-01T17:53:00.000-04:00

Looking at the last post, I see the last of August. Whew? Has it been that long?

Ever feel the need to "unplug?" I did...and still do to a certain extent. It's one of those unexplainable inner drives that has wrapped me in a cocoon. Actually, I've been on a fast...of my words.

I love to talk! I love to communicate! I love to write! And then, during the past few weeks, I have committed to fasting my words. Oh, I've talked with people. I've sang...and taught. But I have been intentionally selective in the amount and content of my words.

September has been a time of deep introspection and communication with Christ. It has been difficult...but powerful. And it's not over yet. I may blog daily...but maybe not.

Another thing: typing has been second-nature for me. In fact, I enjoy it, and can't decline when people ask me to do typing jobs for them. Upon contemplation, I realize that MANY people have asked me to do typing jobs for them. No complaint...just fact.

Then I injured my hand. My left hand is suffering from nerve damage that makes it extremely weak. It will take time to heal, but I should get full use of my left hand in a few months. But...meanwhile, I can't play keyboard. For those who don't know, I have led worship for a long time. I LOVE to play keyboard...and now I can't. I have been forced to become part of the worshiping community and leave the leading to others. The "leading" part is not such a big deal. But not being able to play keyboard is a struggle for me.

And I can't type like normal. I'm mainly using the right hand and two fingers on my left hand. Do you realize how this is slowing me down? WOW! (So far, I have spent 45 minutes typing this, when it would normally take about 10 minutes max.)

So, since God knows all and can do all, and has backed me into a "time out," I'll embrace this season. Guess the plug is still away from the outlet.

Maybe I'll write tomorrow. We'll see?

Facing the Red Sea?

2011-08-27T20:16:00.000-04:00

Years ago, I read a book by Robert J. Morgan, The Red Sea Rules. Not long ago, I taught a series from Exodus 14, and found some of these truths. I was reminded...and blessed. Let me share them with you.

Are you between an enemy army and an impossible Red Sea (or you might say, "you're between a rock and a hard place")? I am.

But take a look at these 10 "rules" and look up the corresponding scriptures. I think you'll be encouraged.

1. Realize that God means for you to be where you are. Exodus 14:1-2

2. Be more concerned for God's glory than for your relief. Exodus 14:3-4

3. Acknowledge your enemy, but keep your eyes on the Lord. Exodus 14:5-9

4. Pray! Exodus 14:10; 2 Samuel 22:7; Psalm 107:28-29; James 5:16

5. Stay calm and confident, and give God time to work. Exodus 14:13-14; Psalm 37:7-8; Deuteronomy 1:29-31; Deuteronomy 3:22; Deuteronomy 31:6; 1 Samuel 17:47; Romans 8:31,37

6. When unsure, just take the next logial step by faith. Exodus 14:15; Nehemiah 9:19; Psalm 42:8; Psalm 110:3; Luke 11:3; Psalm 68:20; 2 Corinthians 4:16

7. Envision God's enveloping presence. Exodus 14:19-20; Psalm 139:5-6; Psalm 125:2; Psalm 46:1; Philippians 4:5-6; Isaiah 41:10; Genesis 28:1; Acts 18:9-10; Hebrews 13:5

8. Trust God to deliver in His own unique way. Exodus 14:21-22; Deuteronomy 23:14; Psalm 34:19; 2 Peter 2:9; Psalm 50:15; 2 Timothy 4:18; Isaiah 55:8

9. View your current crisis as a faith builder for the future. Exodus 14:30-31; Hebrews 11:6

10. Don't forget to praise Him. Exodus 15:1-2

Watching What I Eat

2011-08-23T07:38:00.000-04:00

Today, I'm trying to watch what I eat. Choosing the "right" foods is important, because I am what I eat, right? As I'm making good choices, I'm feeling better, too. What a perk!

But, even more importantly, I'm watching what I eat spiritually. What goes in...makes me what I am. If I eat His Word and absorb positive, faith-filled resources, I am fit and eternally productive.

What I eat MUST come out...and if I absorb negativity, complaints, and fear-based teaching--then that's what I become.

Ever been around someone with body odor? All bets are on that they don't even know they stink... but everyone else certainly knows!

Likewise, those who have poor spiritual diets don't know that they toxic waste flowing from their lives. They don't realize why they are friendless. They are clueless as to their condition. Instead, they feel like martyrs.

None of us are perfect, and all are subject to this easy-to-fall-in trap. For all of those whom I have offended with spiritual body odor and bad breath...my DEEPEST apologies!

Now I'm off to find my spiritual deoderant and mouthwash... "May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer" (Psalm 19:14).

Everybody Needs a Break from Time to Time

2011-08-20T07:29:00.000-04:00

Everybody needs a break from time to time. We're so thankful to have had that opportunity during the past few days. If you read the earlier posts, you know that we had all six of our grandchildren with us for a few days. Then we returned Matt and Sarah's 2 to North Carolina--safe and sound. As a bonus, we were able to spend time with them and Hannah.

Pictures tell the story:

It was about a 9-hour trip with lots of potty breaks, candy stops, and refueling. Thankfully, we had a crew aboard that helped with the car's needs.

Charlotte, North Carolina is a beautiful city...now home to five of my "beautiful people." We had fun trying new restaurants and seeing the sights.

Matt, Sarah, and Hannah moved to Charlotte to be part of an amazing church--Elevation Church. They are all three part of a church planting launch team, establishing another campus in the University area. Hannah is also an intern at Elevation. We got a "tour." I apologize for the poor quality of photos. The camera kept changing it's settings (or maybe it was photographer error?)

Sarah and Hannah show off the desk where our intern currently works. What amazing office space they have!!!! And the people working all around her are wonderful!

We walked through the facilities, amazed at how God is using the people of Elevation to win MANY, MANY people to Christ!

In the sanctuary of the Matthews campus...

Our "kids" live in a beautiful apartment complex in the Matthews area. Here, we're headed to the pool!

I was able to get some shots of their swimming accomplishments. (But I completely missed every photo of "jumps." They were just too quick!)

It was a precious time away. And though we miss the Bush's and Hannah, we're THRILLED that they are part of an amazing thing that God is doing in the earth today!

And now we're back home, trying to return to our own rhythm of responsibilities. Today is a day filled with meetings and friends. It will be good to spend time with great people...Wish we could spend time with YOU~

A Nice, Slow Morning

2011-08-17T10:34:00.000-04:00

We woke up in North Carolina...in the freshly-moved-in apartment of Matt and Sarah (and Hannah, too). It's so nice...and being with them is so special. They're filled with anticipation for the amazing things that God is doing in their lives.

We saw Hannah for a couple of hours last night. For those of you who are wondering, she has not yet begun her internship...but it on full-speed-ahead, being part of the launch team for a new Elevation campus. She is being challenged, and is loving it!

There's not much "wisdom or insight" to share today...Honestly, "time off" is so nice! But, I wanted to post something so that I won't get a ton of emails or text messages again asking if I'm OK. [smile]

We're really OK...simply on vaca mode! It's back to routine next week.

So much fun!

2011-08-15T19:19:00.000-04:00

What a unique weekend it has been! Roger and I were privileged to have the company of our 6 grandkids. I haven't blogged. I haven't worked in the office. I haven't done much pastoral work. I have barely turned on the computer....I have been enjoying the young ones!

Here's some of our fun:

When the cousins first got together at Tuttle Crossing Mall in Columbus, we just HAD to try out the Hurricane Machine!

Heading to Papa and Mama's house...

Roasting hot dogs and marshmallows in the back yard.

Lots of "LEGO" action!

A walk in the woods...

Playing in the creek...and getting covered with mud!

Popsicle break--

Boys' bath time...thanks, Papa!

Sitting with me on the front row Sunday morning. LOVED this!

Delicious Sunday lunch--Happy Meals!

The kids made a funfetti anniversary cake for Adam and Nickie. When they got home, they were required to feed each other a bite while the kids cheered. :-)

Zach thumb wrestled with the gang. Can't remember who really won...

Now, we're packing our suitcases. Roger, Madison, Braylon and I are headed for Charlotte, North Carolina early in the morning. We are excited!!!!!

Countdown is on!

2011-08-11T09:09:00.000-04:00

I didn't post yesterday, because I was going 200MPH throughout the day. My facebook status was:

Putting on the "Wonder Woman" outfit....uh...I think it's shrunk in the last few years. OK. I'll wear it under the regular clothes and still be able to get LOTS done!

And I did accomplish much. Good thing...the countdown is on!!

Adam and Nickie are celebrating their anniversary with a trip to Niagara Falls, and we get to play with their four youngun's while they're gone. They arrive this afternoon. YAY!

Then, tomorrow the six of us (Grandpa, Grandma and 4) are road tripping to Columbus, Ohio to pick up Matt and Sarah's two youngun's. They've been staying with their Grandpa and Grandma Bush in Indiana. We're meeting halfway to make the "switch." (Sounds like a drug deal?) We like to meet like this...that gives us time to visit. Dwight and Marcia are our dear friends.

So, for the next few days, I'm checking out of "church work." Housecleaning can wait. It's time to PLAY! OK, I can't show you my wallet, but I DO have pics of my "treasures." Want to see?

From the top: Matt and Sarah's: Madison and Braylon

Adam and Nickie's: Macie and Abigail

Adam and Nickie's: Owen

Adam and Nickie's: Joseph

We're gonna have FUN! FUN! FUN! And you know that I'll be posting lots of photos!

34 Years ♥

2011-08-08T20:45:00.000-04:00

Roger and I celebrated our 34th anniversary last Saturday. Not a lot of fanfare...but much reflecting, and rejoicing for God's faithful kindness in our individual lives--and in our life together.

As a very young girl, I remember daydreaming about my future husband. And as I look back from a different vantage point on the time line, I know that God provided the perfect husband for me.

I think that I probably know him better than anyone else on earth, seeing him at both his best and his worst. And I must admit, he is "in private," what he is "in public."

Thank God for a husband who is

a man after God's heart.
very quiet and analytical (this balances out my personality!)
a generous giver.
deeply concerned about the feelings and circumstances of others.
respectful of others--especially older folks. He so enjoys "rocking" and conversing with those who are "farther down the road" than he is.
supportive of who God created me to be.
passionate about sharing God's Word and expanding the Kingdom.
fun to hang out with.
very humble. He won't admit this, but he is. (Maybe it's good that he doesn't see it?)
obedient to the call and leadership of the Holy Spirit.
a wonderful father to my four kids.
a fun grandpa to my "treasures."
committed to launching the next generation toward their dreams.
willing to laugh with me, cry with me, and put up with me (especially during this time of life!)
excited about traveling to Africa with me! (Can it get any better than that?)

So, now we begin year #35. I'm holding out for our 75th anniversary. What do ya think?

Empty Nest?

2011-08-07T19:05:00.000-04:00

Wow! Thanks to so many of you who have missed my blog. Really? I didn't know that I had that many readers!

Well, very honestly, I needed to "unplug" for a bit. It's been a season of change in the Loomis family, and so I've been focusing much attention in other areas.

Empty nesters. That's us now. Hannah launched this past Friday, headed for an internship at Elevation Church in the Charlotte, North Carolina area. "Excited" would not accurately describe her emotions right now. Perhaps "ecstatic"...?? Anyway, it's wonderful! You can follow her on her blog: Consistent.

On the same day, Matt and Sarah moved to the same place. Yep, talk about LEAPS of faith! They are following God's will, and can't wait to see what He opens up. You know about ABRAHAM and SARAH? Well, in this generation it is MATTHEW and SARAH...

When they arrived at their new apartment, they were met by a group of Elevation people who helped unload their truck, bringing them bags of groceries, welcome baskets and cards. Talk about "love in action." Want to keep up with the exciting events as they unfold? Sarah writes My Life...Living It Out.

Zach flies back to Cleveland tomorrow. He traveled south with his little sis... and he's had a great weekend.

Adam and Nickie celebrate their anniversary this week. Guess who gets to play with the kids for a few days? OH, YEAH!!!! And with Sarah and Matt's two, this Grandma is going to be in heaven!!! All 6 of my grandkids with me for a few days. SO PRECIOUS!

Did I say we have an "empty nest"? Guess it's empty just once in a while!

Don't Let Past Failures Define Your Future

2011-07-27T08:08:00.000-04:00

What a good blog Pastor Steven Furtick posted this morning! Check it out:
www.stevenfurtick.com www.stevenfurtick.com

On the Road Again...

2011-07-26T06:50:00.001-04:00

Time to head back to Cleveland.... It's nice to have time away, but it's always good to come home. It was great spending time with Eric, Lisa and Mia (my brother and his family). And then we had opportunity to spend a few hours with my grandma (Abigail's great, great grandma). She is in good health. Her only major limitation is diminishing eyesight. It was good to hear some stories of her early years. I love history--especially when it is mine![smile]

We spent a couple of hours at the hospital with my Aunt Alice. Again, it was good to remember...laugh... cry...and pray together.

Tomorrow, a semblance of normalcy returns. And there is much to do in my office. It's time for Cross Study Center registration--what an exciting course line-up we have ahead!

Yeah, I should be including some deeply moving, inspirational thought...but to be very honest, I've tried to "check out" mentally and "give my brain a rest." (OK, OK, I can just hear some of your responses at this point!!!)

Watch out for tomorrow's post. You will LOVE it! You will be motivated!! (What will I write? I'm clueless...but I just know that there must be something of substance somewhere just waiting to pop out!)

Quick Road Trip!

2011-07-25T09:31:00.000-04:00

It's been a fun adventure around our house.... several grandkids spending some days and nights... And then a quick road trip to Indiana. I haven't blogged...I've been preoccupied with "playing."

Our niece, Mia, was baptized last night. We hurriedly left our church service in Ohio right after Roger preached so that we could arrive at the Kokomo, Indiana service on time. (We were still 7 minutes late :-( ). Mia is our little "China doll" who came into our family about 9 years ago. My eyes filled with tears as I listened to Mia's testimony of loving Jesus and desiring to serve Him all her life. What a precious time!

As a side note, Roger preached a great message yesterday where he shared some things that had been on his heart for years. He felt that yesterday was the day to express them. And I think that most of the people heard with their hearts. We'll see.... Anyway, he made a statement in the sermon that he hoped the side door was unlocked so we could make a "quick getaway" if necessary.

We really DID need to make a quick departure because of the necessary travel time to Indiana. I'm still laughing at the facebook posts and private messages we've received. They want to know if we were afraid that we had to "get out of Dodge" quickly???!!!

Oh, you know Roger's got his Africa hat, and can hit the road if necessary!

Let's Talk Marriage Here...

2011-07-19T05:29:00.000-04:00

In just about three weeks, Roger and I will celebrate our 34th anniversary. 34...that's a big number. I still remember #1 anniversary....#10...and so forth. The years have seemed to pass so quickly.

Some things I've learned in 34 years that haven't come from a book?

* Marriage is hard work. It is a full-time job that must be attended to. Left to "coast," it usually slides right out the door...

* To make a marriage work, one must quit the pattern of thinking which says, "I wish he would...." or "He's not meeting my needs..." etc. The focus has to be sharply fastened upon the spouse.

* There is no perfect marriage. Everyone has some sort of struggle(s).

* Always be on the lookout for resources to strengthen your marriage.

Here are some links that I've found to be helpful / interesting:

Intimacy in Marriage

Marriage Gems

The Marriage Bed

The Dating Divas

Family Life

Random Thoughts About the Weekend

2011-07-18T11:07:00.000-04:00

Ever have one of those weekends that was dotted with so many great ingredients...each one distinctly unique...yet somehow they made up one beautiful composite? I did. In fact, I didn't blog yesterday. Really unusual (unless, of course, I'm in Africa). Speaking of Africa--here's a photo of us standing outside "our home away from home."

Today is an unusual day, too, but I have opportunity to squeeze some organizational work between "people time."

It was fun to have time away with Roger--just "road trip" enjoyment. We visited Hale Farm and Village. Both of us love history... (Made me miss Williamsburg, Virginia...but hopefully that will happen before the end of the year...)

We ended the day with our dear elderly friend, Loraine, being promoted to heaven. Seeing death take place makes life much more focused! Her memorial service is tomorrow.

Saturday brought hospital visits...a bit of housework...last minute Sunday service prep...conversations with all the kids...a sweet conversation with my 94-year-old grandma (planning a upcoming visit with her)...and some random shopping.

Oh, yeah--I spent a few hours rewiring our sound system at the church. Through various moves and stage clear-offs, some things were misplaced. After my first Sunday back from Africa, I knew that I needed to "baby" our system a bit. It sounded much better yesterday, thankfully!

Speaking of yesterday, we had a great service--great attendance by some of the world's most wonderful people. It was so cool to see our youth student leadership in action, and to hear a missions report. (You KNOW how I feel about missions!) And I must brag on my sweetheart--He outdid himself preaching the Word. Did I tell you that he's my favorite preacher?

We lunched with a young couple whom God has called to be church planters. Birthing a spiritual "baby" is always exciting!

Then we ended the day in Willoughby Hills at "Hunger and Thirst"--a time of spiritual refreshment. Journey Church (which includes our son, Zach) was leading. Someone asked us why we attended. It's simple. Of course, we always enjoy Zach's ministry, along with that of "His Name High." But the usual pattern is that Roger and I lead most services we attend. It's a real treat to be a "participant" in worship, with no leadership expectations.

Now, today, -- a trip to Columbus for some meetings...and I'm playing "catch up" with administrative tasks.

Looking back, here are some of my take-aways from the weekend:

Grab any possible opportunity to encourage and be encouraged by others.
Remember that life is short...death is certain...and Jesus is in control.
Look for ways to expand the Kingdom of God. He never chooses the "qualified" people...He's looking for those who are "available." (HE does the "qualifying.")
Place God's Kingdom FIRST and everything else will fall into line.

A Season of "Change"

2011-07-16T07:48:00.000-04:00

"CHANGE" is not a four-letter word like some folks believe. It's a good word that describes something over which we have no control.

Each second, our body is changing. Old cells are falling away as they are replaced by new cells. We are all changing constantly--ready or not--whether we like it or not--we are changing.

And I'm choosing to embrace the changes that face me right now.

Hannah is leaving home in three weeks, embarking on an adventure as an intern with Elevation Church in Charlotte, North Carolina. She's our youngest...and that brings changes to our family.

Someone asked me at Hannah's graduation/going away party if I was struggling with her leaving. They were looking all sympathetic and patting my shoulder gingerly. I pondered their question, and then answered, "No, I'm not struggling at all. I'm thrilled for this opportunity in her life."

Another gal asked me, "How can you stand letting her go? After all, she's your baby."

(And since this comment seems to be on automatic repeat from lots of voices, let me respond....)

Hannah is my baby--although I'm not too sure that she would describe herself in that way. She is a independent thinker and has been self-sufficient in many ways for a long time now. She writes a blog, Consistent. It's worth checking out.

I LOVE my kids. No question about that. But when we dedicated each of them as babies, we were reminded that they are not our kids, but God's kids. He simply loaned them to us to nurture and raise.

It's like Mary in the scriptures. Jesus was placed within her womb to birth and to train. But what if she had refused to let Jesus obey His Father? What if she had demanded that He remain in the home to take care of her? What if she had thrown a "mama tantrum" and insist that He meet her emotional needs? WOW! That would have changed history. I'm thankful that Mary realized she was only "part" of the plan. And she knew when to back away, and let the Heavenly Father assume parental leadership.

Four different times, once with each child still in the womb, the Holy Spirit spoke the same message to me. I've never forgotten. In fact, I ponder this often. At the most unexpected times, the Holy Spirit came over me very powerfully and said, "There will come a day, when you and Roger, and each of your four children will all be preaching my Word on different continents all at the same time." I've heard it four times. And I'm eager to see it come to pass.

So, to have my kids moving around? Of course! How will we reach the nations if we all stay together all the time?

Do I enjoy being separated from them? Absolutely not. But time time together becomes QUALITY! We love to preach and sing together. But how much greater the return from our labor if we go in different directions and preach and sing?

Matt and Sarah are preparing for their big move--also in three weeks. Why not keep posted on the events of their home with Sarah's blog? My Live...Living It Out

Hey, Charlotte is a mere 8-hour puddle jump from Elyria. And even quicker by air!!!

A Picture is Worth More Than 1,000 Words

2011-07-15T06:19:00.000-04:00

Our friend and partner in missions ministry, Simon Ellett, took some amazing photos during the recent trip to Kenya. I simply have to post them. They show the faces of people whom God desperately loves. Men...women...old...young... When I look that them, my heart races and my eyes fill with tears. There's a burning passion in the very core of my being to share the Good News of Jesus with them...and others like them. I'm praying for these people, believing that somehow I'll spend eternity with them in the presence of Christ.

How can I keep silent until everyone has had an opportunity to hear?

He Didn't Bring Us This Far...

2011-07-14T15:21:00.001-04:00

It was so good to be back teaching at Cross Community last night! I shared one personal story that fit the context of the message, and I thought I'd relate it here...

When Roger and I were serving as volunteer youth pastors back in 1980, we were struggling to pay our bills. Time and time again, we sought for jobs, but no one would hire us. In fact, we were rejected at Beebo's Car Wash. THAT was a blow to the ego!

The only thing available was a newspaper route, and we took it. In the middle of each night we loaded our car with newspapers, and baby Sarah in the backseat. The route was 60 miles of dark, country roads. Roger drove, and I rolled and tossed the papers or placed them in the plastic boxes near the mailboxes. Our car was known for the "putt-putt" sound it made...there was more wrong with the engine than was right. Because of an accident, we were driving without a front left fender. Our dream car!

The tires told the same kind of story. It seemed that we had a flat tire nearly every night on those lonely roads. With extremely limited funds, we purchased a retread tire for $5 and carried it in the trunk (which had a gaping hole in it.) Our daily routine was: pick up the papers and buy another retread.

On one particular night, we had three flat tires. Of course, we didn't have enough replacement tires, so we would simply put a different retread on...drive a short distance...and repeat over and over until we got back home.

We had "had it." We knew that we were called into ministry. We had given our lives, our future, our home, our family to Christ...and it looked like we weren't making it.

As Roger was out changing the flat tire for the third time, and I was inside rolling more papers while keeping an eye on our sleeping one-year-old in the back seat, I said to God, "Have you forgotten us? Why does it seem like things are getting worse than better?"

Now, let me back up a bit.... Because we were always sleepy on this 3rd shift route, we played the only radio station that would come in clear in this backwoods area of Alabama. It was a hard rock station...and that was OK because the screaming guitars kept us awake.

During this "tire-changing-Lori-praying/whining" session, the rock station was blaring. I asked God, "Have you forgotten us? Why does it seem like things are getting worse than better?" I thought that perhaps God was simply playing a sarcastic prank at our expense.

Suddenly, the radio grew static-filled, and a song began playing. It was the Imperials singing, "He didn't bring us this far to leave us. He didn't teach us to swim to let us drown. He didn't build His home in us to move away. He didn't lift us up to let us down." I couldn't believe what I was hearing! Tears filled my eyes as the presence of the Holy Spirit filled the car.

God spoke to us!!! Right there, on the dark road in a dark situation at a dark point in our lives, God spoke to US!

When the song ended, there was more static. The R&R DJ interrupted, and said, "What in the %#^*$^ was that?????" And the rock music continued.

Maybe you're going through a tough time when it seems that nothing is going your way? Let me encourage you. God knows where you are and what is happening with you. He loves you. He hasn't forgotten you.

I tried to find the Imperials singing this song on youtube, but was unsuccessful. However, I did find this version. Why not listen for just a bit?

What a Privilege!

2011-07-13T04:35:00.000-04:00

This was one of my Sunday morning preaching opportunities...what a privilege to share God's Word! Since thorn trees are so prevalent in Kenya, I used a branch as an object lesson.

Sin entered the world through Adam and Eve's disobedience, and thorns grew.
Then God appeared to Moses in a burning thorn bush--letting us know that God desired to know and be worshiped by people.
The furniture in the tabernacle was built from the wood of a thorn tree. Thorns=pain. God was willing to pay the price of pain to have relationship with us.
And then Jesus wore the crown of thorns at Calvary. WOW! He took the punishment of our painful sin so that we could have freedom and forgiveness!

It also reminds me that God is intimately acquainted with our pain. He felt it throughout the centuries. He is the Great I AM, and can help us through ANY pain!

What are you struggling with today? People might not know...or understand. Even if they did, they can't REALLY help. But God can! Don't hold on to the pain and try to make it alone. Give it to Him. He can remove the thorn--the stinger--and release any toxins that that enemy has tried to embed within your life.

Remembering...

2011-07-12T05:44:00.000-04:00

We arrived home from Africa on Friday night, and our schedule required that we jump right into prep for Sunday morning service and Sunday evening graduation party. The service was great. It was good to be back with our "Ohio family" at Cross Community. Then Hannah's party was wonderful. I'm so proud of that girl! Our friends from Cross Community, Journey Community and former churches attended to celebrate this special time in her life. That's priceless! My brother--Eric, Lisa and Mia--came, and Roger's brother--Jeff and Tam--attended. So cool...

It's now Tuesday morning, and I'm settling down to look at some photos and thinking about parts of the trip. Let me share just a few memories with you:

This is one church that we visited. Roger preached here.

We were singing a worship song in the Masai language. (Don't be too impressed...I don't actually speak the language. I simply memorized some syllables!)

Here we were praying for people. The presence of the Holy Spirit was tangible!

I had a "first" on this trip...A young boy and I decided to have a foot race.

Needless to say, he won. But I gave it my best shot, despite my heavy boots. (Besides, I'm a white "shosho"[grandma], and he's a Kenyan.) Need I say more?

One of the best parts of the trip was to be able to travel with my sweetheart. He provided amazing ministry during this "African Adventure."

Such a special time...

2011-07-11T07:13:00.000-04:00

I have to be quiet right now...there are lots of people asleep in my house. So read quietly, OK?

We celebrated Hannah's graduation/going away party last night. We were so blessed by all of our friends who joined the party. Just gotta say that our friends and family are the best! My brother Eric, Lisa and Mia came over just for a day. Always love to have time with them.

Zach spent the night here...Hannah is in her bed...Mia claimed the floor/sleeping bag, Eric and Lisa are in the guest room, and Bailey is snoozing on the couch...

When everyone wakes, we'll go have breakfast somewhere. I haven't even been to the grocery store since returning from Africa on Friday night. Sounds like a good excuse for Cracker Barrel, don't you think? Adam is working lots of overtime at Akron/Canton Airport TSA...but Nickie and the kids are going to drive up. Anxious to see them!

Down in Florida, it's Madison's 10th birthday. The family party continues. Wish I could be there to celebrate, but with them moving to North Carolina in four weeks, that will make our drive very "do-able." We'll celebrate her birthday again in August!

I took a few photos last night, but I don't want to wake everyone with me trying to find my camera right now. [smile]

I'm still jet lagging a bit, but not that bad. I'm thinking of Africa...and enjoying America. It's priceless to have precious friends and family on both sides of the globe!

I'm BACK!.....

2011-07-10T05:29:00.000-04:00

I'm b-a-c-k!!!! What an experience these last 17 days have been! So sorry that the blog has been out of commission. During this trip, I could not get enough internet power to post on this site. I was fortunate to place quick little status updates on facebook from time to time. But that was the extent of my success. My African phone provided only sketchy service--enough that I could call my kids a couple of times. Otherwise, I was completely "cut off" from my normal world and routine. And I think that was God's plan....

There is no way that I can summarize the trip in one day. And very honestly, I'm still processing many of the experiences and truths that the Holy Spirit was sharing with me. Suffice it to say that this trip to Kenya was, by far, the most intense and fatiguing of all.

Many times people want to travel on missions trips to exotic places and do spectacular things in the name of Jesus. I LOVE IT WHEN IT WORKS LIKE THAT! But God gave me deep insights into His heart in ways that I didn't anticipate.

When He said "Go into all the world and preach the Gospel,"? Oh, there is a new "substance" to the word GO for me. It was a long flight...Then during this particular assignment, we did much traveling throughout the nation of Kenya.

We journeyed south to the area of Mt. Kilimanjaro and preached in several Masai churches and conducted an outdoor church planting crusade. Then part of the team traveled to the northwestern section of Kenya--high in the mountains, and conducted a three-day church planting crusade.

Someone asked how many hours were logged in travel. Hmmmm....no idea. LOTS! And this travel was over difficult roads with many delays.

Add to the arduous travel, much spiritual warfare. The enemy was not happy that the Word was being preached, and he harassed us at every turn. But we obeyed. We went. And God receives all the glory and credit for anything that took place.

I wish I could say that thousands swarmed the altars...but there weren't thousands. I don't have any numbers. (As a side note, I get weary of counting so that we can get the credit. Really, what did we do besides GO? Our amazing God gets any credit for anything that took place.) But there were many who made a public profession of repentance and faith.

During my stay in Kenya, I was right in the middle of a study of the book of Acts. The Holy Spirit directed my attention to the missionary journeys of Paul. Oh, I loved the results of miracles and healings that are there. But my eyes saw things I had never really appreciated before. I tracked his journeys on the maps in the back of my Bible. I pondered HIS trips...HIS difficulties...HIS assignments...HIS spiritual warfare. And my heart was SO greatly enriched.

Marigold often says, "If it was easy to go, everyone would do it." I really get that. Oh, I'm not trying to super-spiritualize myself. Are you kidding? There were moments that I thought, "I can't do this...." But the Holy Spirit brought sufficient help just when it was needed.

Yep, I have bruises from the bumpy rides. I am struggling with jet lag. But I have a new song in my heart that I've never sang before. It's a song that can only be birthed during adversity...and it is a private song of intimate praise.

Why go? Because I could easily have been born in that remote village of Kapsowar... would someone come tell me the Good News of salvation? I don't know.

I'll post photos as I get the time. And now I must get dressed for our first service back in Elyria, Ohio. Then it's on to celebrate our youngest daughter's graduation. We're so proud of Hannah!!! Come on over to the party tonight!

Ready for Take Off!

2011-06-21T06:14:00.000-04:00

Finally...the day we head to Kenya!! It's always hard to get everything ready to go...so many little details and loose ends. Thankfully, my kids will be at the house and don't tell them, but (I've left a "to do" list! SHHHHH...)

Once again, here is the team that will be going with us from Cleveland:

Michele is on our team, but she's flying from Pensacola, Florida, and will meet us in Nairobi:

Thanks for keeping all of us in your prayers. We're expecting GREAT, AMAZING, AWESOME, BEYOND IMAGINATION, WONDERFUL results. WHY? Because we're serving a GREAT, AMAZING, AWESOME, BEYOND IMAGINATION, WONDERFUL God!!

There will be sporadic blogs for the next couple of weeks, as I'll write whenever I can get internet connections.

I've got a couple more things to pack...Blessings on you, dear friends!

Proud...Thankful...Excited

2011-06-20T06:02:00.000-04:00

There are so many emotions filling my heart and mind--and they're all good! Yesterday was such a great day with my husband and sons team preaching. It was a first time for them to try it, and I think they did a great job. Seeing their different personalities and styles come through reminded me of the wonderful HEAVENLY FATHER!

Hannah led worship with her brothers and the Cross Community team. However, she's got the "preach" in her, too. Yesterday was "guys day." But I'm already thinking how wonderful it would be to team preach with Hannah and Sarah. I'll have to work on that....

I'm multi-tasking BIG time today as we leave the country tomorrow. THANKFULLY, we have people coming in and out of our house to "live" while we're gone. The house belongs to HIM, so we're more than happy to share. (But that means I've got to leave everything clean...add that to the list! {smile})

Here's a thought I had yesterday. Let me just throw it out there...

This is such a hectic season for me, and it seems that most of my conversations with people center around the "to do list." I'm making arrangements for this or that; people are asking me to help with things that they need done. That's the way I do life.

But during my early devotions yesterday morning, I thought, "Do I only spend time talking to God when I need to give Him my "list," and ask Him to take care of things for me?" "Do I focus on Him for what He can DO for me?"

Oh, no doubt that He can do ANYTHING. He instructs us to pray about EVERYTHING. He admonishes us to cast ALL our cares upon Him.

But, knowing that He knows my needs before I even know them myself...and realizing that He loves me more thoroughly than I can imagine....

I just wonder if He gets tired of my "list"? I wonder if He ever thinks, "Lori, really talks to me only when she's asking for something"?

My personal goal...stop with the whole list thing. Yep, I'm going to fast my "heavenly list." Instead, I plan to focus on His personhood...His nature...His character traits. And then, as I'm getting to know HIM better, I'll simply thank Him for acting like HE IS...faithful...capable...miraculous...more than enough for any circumstance.... infinitely inexhaustible...

My Dad...My Hero

2011-06-19T06:18:00.000-04:00

Dale Owens was my dad. He lived 59 years on this earth, and was then promoted to heaven. Oh, how I miss him and my mom! But on this Father's Day, I don't cry for my dad anymore. Instead, I am able to reflect on his life and on the things that he taught me.

My dad loved adventure. He always wanted to experience more than what was available to him. Very talented, he excelled in many areas.

My dad:

a scholar
a teacher
a reader (He ALWAYS had a book in his hand!)
a sports fan
a pastor
a chaplain
a runner
a counselor
a listener
a giver
a prankster
a loving son
a faithful husband
a generous father

Dad pastored six churches, and held many different side jobs. He was a barber, a store clerk, a nursing home chaplain, a janitor, a residence hall director at Evangel University in Springfield, Missouri, Dean of Men at Valley Forge Christian College in Pennsylvania, and so much more!

One summer, while living in Missouri, he walked from Springfield to Dover, Indiana where my grandparents lived. Another summer, he bicycled that same route.

He LOVED to teach God's Word, and had a strong administrative gift. Talk about organized!! I know that Cross Study Center is the fruit of my dad's prayers and desires. If he would have lived longer than 59 years, he would have birthed a school. And I'm sure that he'd be trekking to Africa with me!

But he was always on a journey for something better. He was just passing through... and now he's finally home. I miss you, Dad. But I'm following in your footsteps!

Happy Father's Day to my Sweetheart

2011-06-18T07:07:00.000-04:00

I missed blogging yesterday...YIKES! I thought I did it, but in my 1,0000MPH prep travels, I missed that detail. Oh, my!

Well, on to today~

Father's Day Weekend is here! Today I celebrate the father of my children. Tomorrow I celebrate my dad who is having a MUCH better life than I am...because He's in heaven. (But with my limited perspective on true life, I still think my life here is great.)

When I said "I do" to Roger Loomis, it was after much thought, prayer, and "forward vision." My parents always told me to never get serious with someone that I wouldn't consider as a "forever friend and lover." I also didn't want to marry someone who would not sacrificially love our children. So, when I met and dated Roger, I thought, "Hmmmm.....do I want to live with him every day of the rest of my life? Do I want him to be the forever father of my children?"

Well, you know what I decided. I said, "I do," and we have become forever friends and lovers (and co-workers, and business partners, and traveling companions, and...)

As our children came along, one by one, I saw a young man grow into an AMAZING father. Though not perfect (as none of us are), Roger is the best father that my kids could have. Oh, how thankful I am!

He is a generous giver, a deep thinker, a strong protector, a tenacious disciple, a lover of learning and teaching, and so much more.

And with grandchildren...well, he's definitely a doting Papa!

Let me also mention that he has become a "father in the faith" to hundreds of people. I smile every time I hear someone describe him as their spiritual father. He can't help it. That's just who he is.

Happy Father's Day to my precious husband!

Just some inspirational music...

2011-06-16T08:15:00.000-04:00

Today is full of work, and I needed some inspiration to carry me through. I was simply so overwhelmed that I had to share two selections with you. Maybe you'll be "inspired?"

Now, didn't that "make your day?"

Why Can't You Help the People Here?

2011-06-15T06:59:00.000-04:00

Quite often, I've been asked this question, "Why do you have to go to Kenya? Why can't you just help the people here? We have hungry, lost people here, too, ya know."

Most of the time, this question comes from Christians. Hmmmm..... Really????

My response goes something like this.

"You are right. There ARE hungry, lost people here. And I'm actively trying to reach them through various ministries we have right here. Are YOU helping them, or is that just MY responsibility? Obviously, since you see the needs, God wants you to help."

"And another thing...Jesus specifically told us in three out of the four gospels to go into the whole world and preach the gospel. (You can read that at the end of Matthew, Mark and Luke.) I don't know about YOU, but if Jesus told us to do something, I'm going to do my best to obey."

OK, that's my response in a nutshell. I usually add a little here or there, depending upon the person with whom I'm conversing.

Very honestly, Jesus has put such a mandate upon my life--a compelling force or desire--that if I DON'T go, I will be miserable.

I'm thankful to be serving a group of people at a church here in Ohio who understands God's Word and the calling upon my life. They support me through their love and prayers. Priceless!

Today is a major prep day. Here are the "mental pictures" that I'm looking at. May I share them with you?

Here we are distributing Bibles printed in the Masai language to school children.

One of their homes made from a mixture of mud and cow manure.

Some of the guards who keep us safe as we camp in the bush.

My Masai "Girlfriends"

Thinking of the Children....

2011-06-14T08:37:00.000-04:00

Our Africa team meeting last night was a good one. God has put together some great people for this ministry adventure! We divided up "goodies" to take to the sweet little orphans and people of Korococho slums in Nairobi, Kenya. We're taking pajamas, shoes, clothing, school supplies, and other items that will be beneficial for them.

This is Pastor Joseph and his wife, Alice, who pastor the Korococho church and oversee the school and orphanage that has been named, "Korococho Refuge." They are standing in front of their house which is adjacent to the church/school building. This building used to be a brothel, and it sits next to the city dump. (Many of the children currently live in the dump, down in burrowed holes.) We MUST rescue them with the message of Jesus' love and then provide for them!

I enjoy all opportunities to be with these precious people. It will be so much fun to see them again! And I KNOW that they're gonna love their pj's! (Thank you to all who are donors~)

They love to receive gifts. And this trip, one of our team members, Lindsey, is taking very special gifts for the teachers. We're going to see some BIG smiles!

Just one week...

2011-06-13T09:26:00.000-04:00

There's so much to do this week before leaving for Africa. I must say that it is difficult to focus on tasks at hand, because my mind and my heart are already in Kenya. Here's what I'm thinking about---the sweet people in Korococho, and the children that we are sponsoring...

I could have been born in Africa. I was only I child when I heard the Gospel message. I was forever changed! My heart turns cartwheels when I think about the honor and privilege of sharing God's love letters with the people of Kenya. Even if only ONE child hears....I could have been that child!

My Head is FILLED with STUFF!!

2011-06-12T06:48:00.000-04:00

I had every intention of sitting down this morning and issuing forth a praise-worthy, deeply spiritual, thought provoking discourse.... it ain't gonna happen. [grin]

My head is filled with all kinds of stuff, and it's difficult to focus on just one thing. So let me give you a sneak peek into my brain (scary....):

1. I'm still laughing about our great day at Girlfriends yesterday. SOOOOOOOOOOOO much fun!

2. My feet were so sore after my long Saturday. My sweet husband sat on the couch with me and massaged them. Ahhhhhh.....

3. We've got to get Hannah's grad party invitations out for the July 10th celebration.

4. What shall we do in Istanbul, Turkey during our layover next week?

5. My office looks like Pepto Bismol exploded...gotta put away the Girlfriends stuff until our next event in September--COWGIRL ROUND-UP! (Should I invest in some western boots?)

6. Yesterday's Zumba class in the morning, and the 3-song demonstration during Girlfriends is making muscles sore that I didn't know were there. Ahhh, feel the burn!

7. I'm anxious to lead worship this morning at Cross Community...do I have the song charts ready?

8. Gotta buy some bread for New City tonight. Roger and I are leading the team to feed the folks in that great ministry.

9. Wish I was going to Cedar Point...

10. Anxious to hear what Pastor Dave will say in Leadership Forum this afternoon...

11. Loving all the little PJ's people are bringing for the Kenya orphans...

12. Sad for some hurting people today...and praying for them.

13. Just one more week before the Kenya trip.

14. Did I finish grading the exams and essays from my CSC students?

15. Oops! Look at the time! Gotta get in the shower and get to 8:15 rehearsal!

HAPPY SUNDAY, EVERYONE!!

Video Blog Posting

2011-06-11T11:18:00.000-04:00

We're Born Broken, and are Being "Fixed"

2011-06-10T08:04:00.000-04:00

We're all born broken because of sin, and are (or should be) in process of being repaired. Some don't like to admit that they are damaged. It's a sucker punch to the pride that is inside. It's tempting to don a mask, and pretend that life is perfect. But inside, the truth of the disrepair remains.

I met the greatest couple a couple of months back--Christopher and Marianne Brown. Their story brings tears...and smiles. Check out this repost from their blog, Worship Out Loud. (Then check back often for more great insights!)

Till We Get the Healing Done!

If you have been following our blog you are aware that my husband and I separated in May of 2009. It wasn’t an easy road to healing and restoration in our marriage, but I am so happy that I chose this path. I could have chosen a different path, I could have divorced Chris? Would people have disagreed with that decision? Probably not. In fact, some encouraged it. It was a time when I had many voices and people to listen to, but I chose to listen to one. I chose to listen to the truth and promises of my Father, the truth that God is faithful, He is love, He is gracious, He has plans and a purpose for me, He delights in me, He is full of mercy, He comforts, He renews and restores lives, He heals my pain and sorrow, He gives peace and rest, He cares for me affectionately……(clearly I could go on and on.) In the first few months of our separation, I spent a lot of time in God’s word. Asking Him to lead and guide me. I believe that He did. And He spoke to me too, He also let me see things in a different light, from a different perspective, from His perspective. He challenged me to love as He loves, show grace as He shows grace, to see Chris and others from the inside out. He also reminded me of our wedding vows, something I took and still take very seriously. I came across this decree, “A Standers Affirmation” by an unknown author. I could not have said it better!

A Standers Affirmation

I AM STANDING FOR THE HEALING OF MY MARRIAGE!… I will not give up, give in, give out or give over ’til that healing takes place. I made a vow, I said the words, I gave the pledge, I gave a ring, I took a ring, I gave myself, I trusted GOD, and said the words, and meant the words… in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in bad…so I am standing NOW, and will not sit down, let down, slow down, calm down, fall down, look down or be down ’til the breakdown is torn down!

I refuse to put my eyes on outward circumstances, or listen to prophets of doom, or buy into what is trendy, worldly, popular, convenient, easy, quick, thrifty, or advantageous… nor will I settle for a cheap imitation of God’s real thing, nor will I seek to lower God’s standard, twist God’s will, rewrite God’s word, violate God’s covenant, or accept what God hates, namely divorce!

In a world of filth, I will stay pure; surrounded by lies I will speak the truth; where hopelessness abounds, I will hope in God: where revenge is easier, I will bless instead of curse; and where the odds are stacked against me, I will trust in God’s faithfulness.

I am a STANDER, and I will not acquiesce, compromise, quarrel or quit.. I have made the choice, set my face, entered the race, believed the Word, and trusted God for all the outcome.

I will allow neither the reaction of my spouse, nor the urging of my friends, nor the advice of my loved ones, nor economic hardship, nor the prompting of the devil to make me let up, slow up, blow up, or give up ’til my marriage is healed.

My Friend Was on TV!

2011-06-09T07:09:00.000-04:00

God is all about family...and tying hearts together. He is all about connecting His people around the world for one purpose: to glorify and make His name famous!

We have a sweet couple in our church--Ken and Ann. Ken makes an annual trip to Kenya, but it's not one of my trips. He shared time and time again about the work that his team did, and then I had the privilege of meeting his team leader--Sondra Spotts. We instantly connected! We had just one lunch together, but that was enough for God to melt our hearts together, both in friendship and in purpose.

She prays for me and my team...I pray for her and her team.

And then, when I opened my email this morning, I had a wonderful surprise. My friend was on TV! Take a look:

You can also check out these links:

ABC27

Cornerstone Fellowship

It's all about JESUS...not us. I was simply so excited, I had to share this with you!

Infinite, But Intimate

2011-06-08T10:47:00.000-04:00

Pastor Steven Furtick posted something that was so encouraging to me. Let me share it:

In the morning I lay my requests before you and I wait in expectation. Psalm 5:3

Prayer is so much more than the puny, ordinary thing we make it out to be. And that’s because the One we’re praying to is not only so much bigger than we’ll ever be able to comprehend. But also so much more willing to respond to us than we’ll ever be able to comprehend as well.

Think about this:

Our galaxy has approximately 250 billion stars and it is estimated that there are 100 billion other galaxies in the universe, each with hundreds of billions of stars. And He’s named each one.
The universe is so vast in relation to the matter it contains that it can be compared in this way: A building 20 miles long, 20 miles wide and 20 miles high that contains 1 grain of sand. And He’s holding it all in the expanse of His hands.
The largest star to date, Canis Majoris, is so large that if Earth’s Sun were replaced by it, its radius would extend beyond the orbit of Saturn. And He merely spoke it into existence.

Prayer isn’t just an empty box to fill in on your morning checklist. Every day you get to speak to the One who created and is sustaining a universe that makes you look like less than a grain of sand in comparison.

But now think about this:
The same God who knows the names of every star knows your name.
The same God who is holding the universe in the expanse of His hands is holding you in His hands.

God is infinite, but He is also intimate. Prayer isn’t just lofting up requests to a distant God with little chance of Him responding. Every day you get to have face time and collaborate with the Creator of the universe.

That’s why Psalm 5:3 says that you can wait in expectation when you pray. You should actually expect God to respond to your prayers. When I’m expecting something my mind is preoccupied with it. My schedule is arranged accordingly. I’m actually anticipating it to happen. Prayer isn’t just having a little five-minute conversation in the morning and then going about your day. Prayer sets the agenda for your day.

God expects you to expect Him to be able to answer your requests. But He also expects you to expect Him to want to answer your requests.

You might be as small as a grain of sand, but you have a privilege no star or galaxy will ever have. Take advantage of it today. Lay your requests before God. And wait in expectation.

I'm Running!

2011-06-07T08:08:00.000-04:00

Just two weeks....Yep, that's it! Kenya is calling my name. Oh, most can't hear it, but I certainly can! Some ask, "Why do you go there?" I'm not quite sure how to give a simple answer. Suffice it to say, that if I tried NOT to go there, I would be absolutely miserable.

I'm definitely called to minister in Elyria, Ohio at this season of my life. There's no doubt. But, as a very young child, I experienced a "call" to Africa. Through the years, it has intensified. And as I have read through God's Word, time and time again I see action verbs. "GO" particularly stands out for me.

My heart is divided between two nations. More importantly, it's the people. I love Ohioans! I love Kenyans! There's an uncanny supernatural love and attraction that compels me and propels me.

I was asked if I would go minister to any other people group in the world. Here's my answer: and unequivocal YES! If God gives a special invitation and the necessary provision, I'm going!

Does "going" make me more spiritual than those who "stay?" Are you kidding? NOT! But I am passionately running to obey what my Father tells ME to do. It's not my business to worry about the particulars of His calling and plans for others.

That's something that I'm committed to--"running MY race that HE has set before ME." Oh, that reminds me of what is coming this Saturday. Cross Community Girlfriends is hosting "The Amazing Grace Race!" It's not a really "running" race...but rather a themed event centered around each of us following the plan and purpose that God has placed in front of us. And we can only complete the "race" through His AMAZING GRACE!

(If you live in the Elyria, Ohio area--this is my personal invitation to you to join me for this fun, yet powerful time!)

Fun Day!

2011-06-06T07:39:00.000-04:00

Yesterday was "Fun Day Sunday!" It was an EARLY start...and then rehearsal and service. I love my church family~ We had a great time of worship, and per usual, Roger presented a powerful message.

Then it was time for a quick change--and we headed to Wadsworth to celebrate Abigail's birthday. Several of her friends and cousins came to celebrate the event. Here are some photos--(I'll post more on facebook).

Happy Birthday, Abigail!

2011-06-05T06:00:00.002-04:00

Abigail turns 6 today! We're celebrating ALL day~

Of course, we'll enjoy worship at Cross Community in the morning. Then we're "hittin' the road" for Wadsworth--for an afternoon and evening of birthday fun! The car is loaded and ready to go.

Abigail was just given the honor of "Student of the Month" at her school. She is an excellent student, and has many, many friends. She's extremely creative and loves to read and write. We're so proud of our big little 6-year-old!

I remember being six years old. I thought I was finally grown up. And I was...it just took several more years for everyone to realize how mature I was!

It will be fun to celebrate ABIGAIL DAY!!!!

So Thankful for My Children

2011-06-04T08:46:00.000-04:00

This is a season of transition for Roger and me. Our kids have grown up, and our little Hannah is now old enough to jump from the nest. "Empty nest?" Yes and no. Yes, the kids are pursuing God's plans for their lives. And one really can't stay home and do that.

But "empty"? No way. We have six grandkids who keep our lives smiling. And our kids will ALWAYS be our kids.

And God uses different seasons for different purposes. We want to be busy doing what HE has for us during this time of life.

I feel sorry for, and I pray for those parents who don't want their kids to move out. They think they're protecting them or something? I suppose it could be viewed that way. But kids were designed to grow up and LEAVE mommy and daddy and became adults themselves.

Perhaps some parents' lives are so centered around their kids that they are afraid to let them go? I can think of at least three families like that right off the top of my head. The kids are miserable, but are respectful of their parents...and so the drudgery continues...

Well, back to my kids--I AM thankful! And like any good mother, I have pictures! [big toothy grin]

Matt, Sarah, Madison and Braylon

Adam, Nickie, Macie, Abigail, Owen and Joseph

Zach

Hannah

There's nothing like children...and grandchildren Thank YOU, God!

Packing and Planning

2011-06-03T14:12:00.000-04:00

Today? I'm packing and planning. Specifically, I'm packing my personal items for the upcoming trip to Kenya. That way, I can see how much extra room I have available for supplies that I'm taking. (I LOVE packing for this trip! It makes me overwhelmingly excited [huge grin])!

And then I'm planning for Hannah's graduation party which will happen two days after our return from Kenya. I can't believe that our "baby" is graduating! (And in all actually, I will finally be graduating! I've been homeschooling my kids for about 24 years now, and I'm almost finished. Ahhhhh.....)

Hannah is so excited to wrap it all up and head for North Carolina at the end of the summer. I'll think about that later...

Not too much time to write now--SO much to do. But my mind is already working on tomorrow's blog...

I Hope God Doesn't Make Me Go To Africa!

2011-06-02T08:42:00.000-04:00

I hear this statement several times when the subject of "missions" comes up. Usually, my conversation partners have already predetermined mindsets about "Africa" like, "It's a world away. It's primitive. It's complete sacrifice and depravity."

Lots of folks ask me how I deal with snakes there. Others comment, "How can you stand it?"

I believe that the bottom line in all of these dialogues is fear. Can you sense the "fear of the unknown," "fear of discomfort," "fear of danger?"

Fear is the wall that many allow the enemy to build around their lives. They think that they're safe and comfortable. But in reality, they're trapped and ineffective.

I checked one of my friend's blogs and found this article that she posted on May 6. I simply "fit" today. I've never personally met the author, Linda K. Thomas. But, I sure do like her! Reading her blog, and understanding that I, too, am a Grandma who loves Africa...her writing expresses so much of what is in my heart.

Take a minute and read Holy Stretch Marks.

Oh, yes, let me answer those questions and statements posed to me by inquiring minds.

Africa does seem like a world away. (That's why I love traveling there. My daily life/routine/schedule fades away and I get a fresh perspective on EVERYTHING.)

Some parts of Africa are primitive. That's part of the adventure. And if you're prepared for it, it's actually lots of fun! (It really makes one appreciate the comforts that we take for granted here in America.)

I don't think that it is complete sacrifice and depravity. I've discovered something about my Kenyan friends--they are RICH in the important things like a love for God, a commitment to truth, and so much more.

When it comes to snakes, I've only seen one while in Africa--and it was dead. Oh, the snakes are there. (But they're everywhere we live, too!)

"How can I stand it?" (If you were with me at this moment, you'd hear me laughing hysterically!) Sometimes I miss Kenya so badly that I can't hardly stand being away. Unexplainable? Probably.

The challenge for today--allow God to help you and I break the walls of fear in our lives and realize the joy of FREEDOM!

Does God Know When I'm Hurting?

2011-06-01T09:15:00.000-04:00

Many people whom I know are going through painful times right now. Through tear-filled eyes, one woman asked me, "Do you think God knows or cares what is happening in my life?" My mind instantly went to the verses in Matthew 10 and Luke 12 that describe God's attention to little sparrows who seem pretty insignificant to us. The verses remind us that we are of even greater value to Him and He sees everything that is happening.

This morning, a friend emailed me this little photo journal of a sparrow's death:

A female mate was hit by a car as she swooped low across the road, and the condition was soon fatal.

Her male mate brought her food and attended her with love and compassion.

He brought her food again, but was shocked to find her dead.

He tried to move her - a rarely seen effort.

Aware that his mate was dead and would never come back to him again, he cried with adoring love...

..and stood beside her with sadness and sorrow.

WOW! I was clueless about the love and sorrow felt by God's creatures. The Bible says that God knows when a sparrow falls. Imagine how much He cares for us!

Today, if you're hurting, God knows and He cares. He feels the pain. I can't explain WHY you're going through the difficult times, but you're not alone. HE knows and will help you!

Can You Help the Orphans find REFUGE?

2011-05-31T08:45:00.000-04:00

Please pray for these precious children. The Refuge is located in the Korococho slum. National Geographics has listed it as the third worst slum in the world. These children are collected from the city dump located just behind The Refuge. These children have no living relatives at all and no where to live but the dump. We are giving them hope, a chance for a future and most of all, a relationship with God and showing them the love of God.

The Refuge is a light in the middle of one of Nairobi's darkest, dirtiest, most dangerous slums. Located at the foot of a monstrous garbage dump, all of the slum residents live day to day, but it is the children who are most at risk. The ones who are lucky enough to have parents often still spend their days in the rotting dump rummaging for items to recycle to help feed their families. This breeds disease and despair among children who should be able to grow and play and dream.

The most heartbreaking are the "true orphans" who have no relatives living who will take them under wing. These children actually burrow a nest in the garbage to sleep at night, or risk the danger of child exploitation by sleeping in a ditch inside the slum itself.

When Barbara Wright visited the school that Mike and Marigold Cheshier had built on land they had purchased in the heart of this darkness (it had been a brothel), she knew that the Lord's heart was to find a way to gather these little ones in and love them so their lives could literally be rescued and transformed. Mike and Marigold had been praying for someone to catch that vision. Barbara become infected by it and she hopes that she is so contagious that you catch it, too!

She saw kids who rarely smiled and seemed to not know how to play. It broke her. Then she learned that 15 of the 115 children who get a meager porridge and milk once a day at the school had no home; but slept in that awful dump or on the street at night. How could we not do something?

Barbara and her husband, Randy had often talked of finding an orphanage they could support and truly make a difference. It had just been a random longing in their hearts. When she called him during her first trip, the first thing he asked was if she had found our orphanage. She wanted to cry.

"Yes," she said, "but we have to build it." Ther was "No more just write a check and not be involved."

Barb's wheels started turning..... She wanted paint on the walls, grass on the ground. black boards, bright bulletin boards, textbooks, GOOD NOURISHING FOOD, clothes that we appropriate for the season and that fit, and PLAY GROUND EQUIPMENT. Through faith, she saw the Lord sending mentors who would give their summers or vacations to really love and nurture. She saw an English teacher who would not only teach, but be a big sister or big brother to those kids who had no role model. She saw people investing money, yes--but also people who wanted to invest their lives--artists, construction wokers, mamas, daddies, teachers, plumbers, landscapers, lovers, sports and recreation personelle, homemakers, nurses, doctors, nursing assistants, mechanics--any flavor of human being who had a mind to give of themselves.

Marigold looked at Barbara on one day of the trip and said, "You need to decide where to cap the numbers."

Barbara already knew. She knew we could feed countless children. But her heart was to do so much more. She didn't want to just help the masses survive...She wanted to take a few and do it so well that it was like an inoculation into the system of that slum--to surround them with love and care and help be instruments for the Lord to give them the vision and dreams He has for their lives. She see these kids growing up and out, and building bridges by their example for others to follow.

So they would cap our numbers at 125 total for the school feeding program with 25 of those for the orphanage. Barbara looked at Pastor Joseph who lives on the school grounds with his family the day before we left. Joseph was born and raised in the slum, where at a revival service he was touched by the Holy Spirit and gave his life to Jesus. He now ministers to those who have no hope. She looked him in the eye and said, "We have spots for 14 more, Joseph. Go to the dump and in the ditch. Let God lead you to 14 babies that have no one and no home, and bring them home to us." With tears in his eyes he nodded and said he would.

Mike Cheshier came up with the name- The Refuge - and so it will be. A shelter. But so much more. A home that is filled with love and hope. Safety. The Refuge-Rescue, educate, feed, undergird, guide, encourage Kenya's at risk children.

We are looking first for 100 sponsors who will be able to give 25.00 a month to feed, provide health care, clothe, and educate our school children with family. We already have the money needed to construct the first part of the building to house our orphans. Their support will require 50.00 a month- two families could share this responsibility if that was your desire. All money is tax deductible and Marigold will directly see the money dispersed for the purchase of supplies and services. I know of no one more trustworthy. 100% of the money sent will be used for these children. No administrative cost at all will come from the funds. And as we dream and make things happened we will be letting you know of opportunities to be involved in other ways.

Dream with us! Your ideas and suggestions are important.

If you are interested in sponsoring any of these children, there are two ways for you to do so.

You can choose either way of contact that would be best for you.

You can mail support to:

Womens Department of the Southern Missouri District Council of the Assemblies of God
528 West Battlefield
Springfield, MO 65807

OR

The Refuge c/o Barbara Wright
PO Box 3765
West Columbia, SC 29171

Contact Person: Barbara Wright
barbara@helpinghandssc.com

Please include the child/children's name that you are wishing to support.

For our orphans, the total monthly cost will be $50 (this includes full care: bed, a home, and everything they need).

For our other children, the total monthly cost will be $25 (this includes all their meals, clothing, education, school supplies, and medical attention)

Here's a photo of our "adopted-sponsored son"--Cuyo Roba. I'm proud of him, and am personally raising money to support more of these precious ones.

Getting Anxious...

2011-05-30T06:40:00.001-04:00

Three more weeks...Roger and I will return to Kenya with 8 other team members. There we will join with Missionaries Mike and Marigold Cheshier and other ministry friends. Today, I'm spending time purchasing more supplies, and working on the packing process.

Most of all, I'm simply missing the land and people of Kenya...

A home away from home...

Thank You!!!

2011-05-29T01:38:00.000-04:00

I've never served in the military. I don't understand the price. But I'm thankful! Thank you to all of those who have given yourselves...your "family time" so that I can enjoy my freedom!

And I remember those who gave their lives...Wow! We won't forget!

Say It Face to Face

2011-05-28T05:52:00.001-04:00

Do you love someone? Are you proud of them? Are you glad they are in your life? Tell them...face to face.

I see a pattern, not only in my family as I was growing up, but also in the lives of people around me. They love one another, but they don't say it.

One woman told me, "My husband knows that I love him. Why should I tell him again?"

One mother said, "If I tell my son how proud I am of him, he'll become arrogant."

WHOA, there! Not so.

I've heard people nag and be critical to someone else (person #1), but behind person #1's back, they tell others how proud they are of person #1.

If you love someone, tell them to their face. If you're proud of someone, let them hear it from your mouth. Otherwise, there will be mile-high walls between you that can possibly take years to tear down (if ever).

When I hear the affirmation of others, it makes me feel secure, special; and it fills me with a desire to excel.

Come on...even if you have to stutter and stumble over your words...say it face to face.

Creative Tools to Reach the People!

2011-05-27T08:55:00.000-04:00

You know that missions is my passion. At least if you know me, you know that. The very idea that I have heard and received the message of eternal life propels me to share it with everyone.

Of course, I KNOW that an amazing love for people propeled God to send His only Son, Jesus, to this planet. And then Jesus' all-consuming love for people compeled Him to finish the work He was sent to do, by giving His life. His death paid the cost. His resurrection was the receipt, "PAID IN FULL." And He has given me that receipt to cover my debt! WOW!

This is better than extreme couponing! I have proof of purchase for others who are "still in debt." They don't have to remain as debtors! But, how will they realize that unless someone tells them?

When I pondered that word "propels," I found this video with an actual PROPELLER. And it was invented by a missionary, raised by a tribe in Ecuador who, years earlier, murdered his missionary father. THAT story intrigues me. But this invention is pretty cool. I know that it certainly could be profitable in Kenya!

http://www.eaavideo.org/video.aspx?v=635469588001

Hmmmm....check it out. I believe that during this season of time, God is giving creative ideas to "listening" people. He wants everyone to hear His message! What tool is He placing within your reach?

Joplin...Such Overwhelming Needs!

2011-05-26T18:31:00.000-04:00

The devastation in Joplin, Missouri, after the recent tornado is too big for words. Our friends, Mikey and Shereen Cheshier, have been keeping us posted on some of the details. They don't live too far from there, and have been "hands-on" in this aftermath "process."

Mikey writes, "Here are some pictures and video from the restricted areas. We Headed to Joplin within hours of the tornado to assist in Triage and rescue. My brother in Law (a surgeon at St. Johns) has worked relentlessly. We have offered ourselves to help as we could. Joplin needs prayer and support."

Computer Day!!!!

2011-05-25T07:39:00.000-04:00

Today is "computer day." I'm going to learn some new skills...and teach some new skills. Do you know how exciting that is for me?

I LOVE to learn! There's so much that I don't know....In fact, ratio is so disproportionate that I've got to "get with it!!"

A couple of days ago, someone said to me, "I'm too old to learn anything new." I began looking around for the casket. We're NEVER too old! New knowledge exercises our minds and can lead to greater understanding in many different ways.

And my opinion is that even death will not bring an end to our education. WOW! In heaven we will have unending time to learn from the Master Himself! If He is infinite, it will take us infinity to learn all that He IS!

What will YOU learn today?

We NEED Others!

2011-05-24T07:43:00.000-04:00

Admittedly, there are times in my life when I want to get alone and shut the world out. Been there? It's in those times that I need some uninterrupted hours without the voices, needs, opinions and demands of others. I just "wanna be ME."

There is a generational propensity in my family to put walls up and become isolated. It's there. It tempts me every once in awhile. I sense it when I become very tired, or in the middle of a demanding calendar. There have been times when I've told Roger, "I'm just going to stay home for the rest of my life."

...and then I take a shower and get dressed for the next event.

Don't get me wrong. We definitely need "aloneness" from time to time. But in all reality, we were meant for connection. (Now that's a challenge sometimes!) Oh, what fulfillment when we overcome obstacles that might try to prevent connection...and we form an alliance!

Roger and I have many long-term friendships/alliances in our lives. Thank God!

And God is establishing a new alliance in our lives right now. YES!

We're looking forward to future alliances that open up for us.

I was thinking about this last night before I fell asleep, and then woke up to John Maxwell's WORD for the day--ALLIANCE.

Most of all, I'm in alliance with heaven...and because of that, today's going to be a strategic day!

4 Weeks...

2011-05-23T08:02:00.000-04:00

We're four weeks away from our departure to Kenya. My calendar is filled with many necessary tasks and great events like outreach ministries, Cross Study Center exams, birthday parties, graduation parties, retirement parties (WOW! We party a lot!).

But I must admit that my heart flutters when I think of boarding that plane and heading to a nation that I really love. Our team of ten will work with Missionaries Mike and Marigold Cheshier, focusing the majority of time and efforts with the Masai people.

So, between appointments and parties, I'm collecting my necessary trip items and pulling together the last of my travel funds.

This trip will be a very special one with a very special purpose. I'm anxious to see what God has planned!

Too Busy Playing!

2011-05-22T06:38:00.000-04:00

I didn't post yesterday...I was too busy playing! Two of my six grandkids spent the night and day with us, and oh, did we have some major fun! They worked hard, too. We worked in the yard...took McDonald's Happy Meals to the park and ate at a picnic table...played on the playground...walked through the woods at French Creek Reservation...went to Huntington Beach...

They were going to spend another night. However, I think we wore them out! As the sun began to set, they missed their mommy and daddy--so we delivered them back to Wadsworth safe and sound.

So much fun with Abigail and Owen! Take a peek:

Papa Roger enjoyed the little one--Baby Joey--during our short visit in Wadsworth.

Play It Out

2011-05-20T07:55:00.000-04:00

When I read Pastor Steven's post, I was reminded of several people whom I've talked with this week. The stories are all different, yet there is one common principle: They acted "in the moment," and didn't think about how that action would affect their future.

Let me share Steven Furtick's thoughts with you:

There’s a simple exercise that can reorient your perspective for any struggle or temptation you’ll ever face.
One of Satan’s greatest weapons is to get you stuck in the moment. The moment of your pain. Your trial. Your temptation. He freeze-frames your current situation and makes you forget everything that you have to gain from it. Or everything that you have to lose from it.

When you face these situations, the best thing you can do is get out of the freeze frame and fast forward to the end. Take a moment and play it out.

Play out your struggles:
If I suffer…I’ll get more reward.
If I experience pain…it’s not worth comparing to the glory awaiting me.
If I die…I’ll be with Christ.

Or on the negative side, play out your temptations:
If I do something unethical…I’ll lose my job.
If I look at porn…I’ll lose my ability to see God clearly.
If I have an affair…I’ll lose my family.

Yes, it’s simple. But it can make a profound impact on nearly every circumstance you’ll ever face in life.

Start taking your situations or temptations to their conclusion. See what incredible possibilities might be in store for you because of Jesus. Or what horrible ones might be in store for you if you neglect Him. There’s more potential in your pain than you can possibly imagine. There’s also more travesty that can come out of your temptation than you can possibly understand.

Don’t let the limited perspective of a moment dictate your life. When you find yourself in a moment of struggle or temptation, stop for a moment. Play it out. And then move forward towards the conclusion God wants for you.

Enjoying Every Moment...

2011-05-19T06:52:00.000-04:00

Hannah will be moving out this summer. She's our baby.... She graduates and will be heading to North Carolina for a worship internship. I don't think about the "empty nest" thing too much because it's not that time YET. But I must say that I am enjoying every moment.

She joined me and other friends for a lunch date yesterday. What a treat for me!

We had fun talking...laughing...eating...and shopping.

A concept that I have learned:

Learn from the past.
Plan for the future.
But enjoy the moment of "now."

With each tick of the clock, a second of our future moves through our present and into our past. It is irretrievable.

Many people waste time, spend time, just "chill out," "hang out," with no understanding that life is passing by. Some wait for that special "day," when a goal will be reached or they'll be in a different place in their plans. But until then, they "veg."

(My "to do" list is off the page. The "overachiever" in me is always nudging me to work more. The "perfectionist" in me is taunting me with accusations of needing to do more because things just aren't "good enough." Yet, as Paul teaches me, I will capture each thought and line it up in obedience with God's instructions.)

What I AM and DO today affects my tomorrow! Will my apathy or lethargy today postpone my exciting future? Just a thought...

Still R-O-L-L-I-N-G!

2011-05-18T07:46:00.000-04:00

I didn't blog yesterday because I was up early and out the door, headed for Fairview Hospital. Our little Isabella Leal had surgery to remove a lump on her head. What a cutie! The procedure was successful, and the hospital staff made over and over how adorable she is.

My day just kept rolling from there....WHEW!!!

So, now I'm blogging a day later, and it's still R-O-L-L-I-N-G!

I have a schedule that is "chock full" (you know what that means?). And I have nothing of great significance in my brain right now. So let me share a couple of links to blogs that have captured my attention this morning:

The Typical Pastor's Wife is Dead

5 Things that Make a Church Compelling

Grandma's Letters From Africa

It's Not About What It's About

2011-05-16T07:07:00.000-04:00

This past week has brought me several reminders of a truth that I learned long ago. "It's not about what it's about." "Huh?" you say?

Examples:

From out of nowhere, someone looks at you, starts to cry, and says, "Can you please leave? It's hard for me to look at you." You take it personally, and wonder why your appearance is so awful that you could bring grief into someone's life.
In the store's check-out line, you decide to be a witness for Christ by showing kindness to the clerk. You say, "Hey, thanks so much." She responds, "Yeah...right!" and then tells the customer behind you to step forward.
Yesterday, Pastor Dave reminded me of something he witnessed this past week at a truck stop on his overnight drive home from a ministry trip. At 3AM, he needed some chocolate milk and a Rice Crispy Treat to give him energy for the last leg of the drive. In the store, he witnessed a trucker getting HIGHLY agitated with the clerk because there weren't any hot dogs on the rollers in the hot dog machine...actually SCREAMING at the poor gal who was trying to solve the problem.
You call someone to encourage them--just to see how they're doing--and they unload on you with all the negative things occurring in their life. The conversation ends with, "If you were the kind of pastor you should be, none of these things would be happening to me..."

People say and do the craziest things! And the enemy of our souls wants us to take everything personally, believing that we really are to blame. He uses these people to make us react in a variety of ways:

We get angry, too, realizing that we had nothing to do with the accusation. How dare them?
We look in the mirror and start to see ourselves negatively, inferior, unacceptable.
We start to think that encouraging others is not worth the risk. So, we begin to leave others alone.
We let people's words and actions become highlighted in our mind, and we live through that filter.
There are lots of other reactions; too many to list...

But, "It's not about what it's about."

We've all done it. We experience physical pain, and get snappy with those around us. We have things said or done to us...and we "act out" with the next available person who might come along. That's what people in our lives do, too.

In the above examples, the one who asked me to leave later told me that she was grieving for her lost friend, and I looked a bit like that friend. Her heartache was so great, and my presence reminded her of how much she missed her.

The store clerk, I later discovered, had endured several nasty customers who were spouting off to her out of their pain. She was at the end of a LONG, difficult shift. "Hey, thank you," was a dialect that she hadn't heard all day and it couldn't readily communicate.

The trucker? A hot dog, REALLY? No, the gentleman (using that term loosely and in faith) no doubt had much pain in his life. If it hadn't been the hot dog, it might have been the price of M&M's. He was hurting so much that the pain was exploding inside of him.

The caller on the phone...he was simply unable to cope with the problems and stress he was experiencing. The pastor was available to listen. Period.

"It's not about what it's about." This is why Jesus commanded us to love one another--even our enemies (those who are difficult to love). He told us that a soft answer turns away wrath. He taught us that love covers a multitude of sin. He told us to pray for those who hurt us...or use us...or make us angry. If we don't process it correctly when it happens to us...we will repeat the scene with someone else down the line--as the one inflicting the pain.

Start today by praying, "Lord, help me to love people as you love them...no matter how they act toward me. Help me to hear what their heart is saying more loudly than their words. Help me to forgive...because they really don't know what they're doing. Love through me. I can't do it in my own strength. Keep my focus on you and not upon people. I can do ALL things, because you're strengthening me right now."

And 12 Years Later...

2011-05-15T06:33:00.000-04:00

I remember the day our firstborn said "I DO" to Matthew Bush. It was beautiful...surrounded by lights and family and love. Hannah was only 6, Zach got a new look for his hair, Adam was able to make music with cousin Matt Owens, I was glad all the dresses I had sewn fit, Roger was melancholy about walking his baby girl down that LONG aisle, Sarah was nervous--yet composed (as usual), and Matt was Prince Charming.

It was a wonderful day...

They met at World Harvest Bible College, and knew the call of God for ministry was upon their lives. During the following years, they lived in Ohio and Florida--and had two sweet babies who have grown to be 9 (almost 10) and 6. And it has been an exciting adventure so far! Here it is, 12 years later. I have a feeling...no, a "KNOWING" that "they ain't seen nothin' yet!"

Happy Anniversary, Matt and Sarah! We love you and are so proud of you!

We Slept With the Windows Open

2011-05-14T07:00:00.000-04:00

We slept with the windows open last night. Now that might not sound like such a big deal to many of you...but to me, it's WONDERFUL!

I'm thankful that the weather has finally become "open window" weather here in Ohio. The smell of fresh air...AHHHHH... The cool breeze drifting through the rooms forces away the "staleness" of a long cold season.

It did rain for a bit (is that a surprise?), and we shut the glass. But this morning, it's wide open again. I love to hear the outdoor sounds. Listening to singing birds upon awakening helps to clear the mind of the silly cluttered dreams.

This is one reason I love camping in Africa so much. There's NOTHING like lying in the warm sleeping bag in a safe tent under a canopy of a zillion stars--and listening to the animal sounds. At first, the different animal noises made me jittery because I was unsure of just what they were. But like old friends, you learn to recognize their voices. Hmmmmm....does anyone have a CD of wildebeest background noise that I can borrow?

As a side note, let me share my dream and you'll see why I was so glad to be awakened by the feathered friends--I hosted a New Years Eve party at Waffle House. I was frustrated because there were not enough booths...and people whom I didn't invite showed up. So I escorted these into a backroom and preached to them. I told them if they would get saved, they could stay and eat. Most of them did! While I was preaching, the rest of my family members were waiting tables. Zach and Adam looked so cute in the little aprons. We ran out of food...so I had to run to Wal-Mart for more supplies, and got stuck in a traffic jam...AND THEN I HEARD THE BIRDS!

I know, I know....that dream was for the birds!!!!

Grandchildren--God's Special Gifts!

2011-05-13T15:16:00.000-04:00

I've been trying to blog all day; the server was messed up or something....But I'm BACK!!!

Today is a special day. Six years ago, a wonderful little man came into our lives and we have been blessed, charmed, enraptured, and encouraged by this boy--Braylon Matthew Bush. This is his 6th birthday.

Here Braylon is on display for his two grandma's. Grammy (Marcia Bush) is in love with the little guy, too!

There are no other people on earth quite like grandchildren. They steal your heart, and you simply don't want them to give it back. [smile]

Roger and I have six grandkids. Madison and Braylon live in Florida. Macie, Abigail, Owen, and Joseph live in Ohio. (Looks like there will be a little time before the next "crop" comes from Zach or Hannah! And that's perfectly OK with me. :-)

I wish I was in Florida right now so that I could party with the big little guy...but thank God for facebook, skype and instant photos. If you happen to run into Mr. Birthday Bush, will you give him a hug for me?

We love you, Braylon!!!

GET MOTIVATED!

2011-05-11T20:10:00.000-04:00

Oh, what fun we had yesterday!!! Seven of us went to Quicken Loans Arena in Cleveland for "Get Motivated" business seminar. It was great!!! Though it was a long and exhausting day, I had a wonderful time, coming away with many poignant things to think about.

We left early in the morning...Diana, Laura, Anthony, Roger and I. Then we met up in Cleveland with Chris and Lois.

It was CROWDED!!! Traffic was NUTS!!! But it was worth it [HUGE grin!].

There were several great speakers including Rudy Giuliani, Terry Bradshaw, Goldie Hawn, Brian Tracy, and James Smith. However, my favorites were General Colin Powell and a gentleman from India (He wasn't listed on the program, and I can't remember his name. I AM diligently searching for him!)

Jesus was the featured guest in most of the presentations--FABULOUS!!!

And then the last speaker we heard was Bill Cosby...funny, as always!

It was motivating, to say the least! And then, to be able to spend time with wonderful friends? That was a bonus!!!!

I'll be attending this seminar next year!

Spring...Cleaning!

2011-05-11T03:08:00.000-04:00

Ahhhhh....it's finally time to throw open the windows and let that warm spring air drift through the house! Love, love, LOVE it!!

And it's the time when I do spring cleaning...that once a year (or more like 1/2 year), when EVERYTHING gets a thorough cleaning.

My mom used to take one week and hit it head on. She was a "cleaning machine." And I used to do the same thing. But at this season in my life, I don't have one entire week to devote to this process. So, like most everything else in my life, I do it "little by little."

Here's my personal plan. I make a written plan. This keeps me on task, and gives me the pleasure of checking off items as they are completed. In my plan, I assign one room to each week. Then I take that room, and assign one task for each day. With my current house, I have ten areas, but double up on some of them. My goal is to be finished with deep cleaning before I leave for Africa.

You want a sample week? OK...for this week, it's the kitchen. I checked my other commitments to see how much I cleaning time I can spare each day. Then I try to figure out how much time each task will take, and assign them accordingly.

* Monday--Remove all items from 1/2 of cabinets and clean shelves. Wash outside of cabinets.
* Tuesday--Do the same for the rest of the cabinets
* Wednesday--Clean stove and dishwasher.
* Thursday--Clean refrigerator and microwave.
* Friday--Wash windows and clean curtains
* Saturday--Clean floors and baseboards (using wood cleaner and Murphy's oil on wood surfaces)

That's just one room. I do that with each room...and little by little, the entire house gets a makeover.

By the way, the garage and yard are on Roger's list~

You probably have your own system. Just do what works for you. But cleanliness is a great goal!

What's the Magic Word?

2011-05-10T07:49:00.000-04:00

"What's the magic word?" How many times has that been said to kids who are demanding something? We want to teach them manners, and to solicit the request, "Please..."

It's imperative that we teach manners. Good manners are part of people skills that open doors. "Please..." and "May I?" request permission, and open up opportunities that might otherwise remain closed if simply demanded.

But there's another word that opens hearts. That is "Thank you." This phrase is an ingredient of manners which is used after receiving something requested. It completes a communication.

However, when it is used unsolicited--just "out of the blue," it is POWERFUL!

Today's challenge: Say thank you at times when it is unexpected. Like:

"Thank you for always listening--even when I'm venting."
"Thank you for taking my call."
"Thank you for all of your hard work."
"Thank you for being my friend."
"Thank you for being such a careful driver."

These are just illustrations...the possibilities are endless. One key: your thanks must be genuine gratitude. No faking it allowed (that is called lying!).

Gratitude that is expressed causes hearts to be open. How will YOU say "thank you" today?

WOW! What a Mother's Day!

2011-05-09T08:27:00.000-04:00

I was hijacked! But it wasn't spam or a virus--it was my firstborn! She took over yesterday's blog in honor of Mother's Day. So very sweet.....As she is in Florida, and I am in Ohio, she was pretty sneaky, huh? (I'm so anxious to be able to see my "Florida Treasures" in person in a couple of months or so.)

It worked out that I had yesterday "off." I was able to attend church sort of like a "normal person." (Normal? uhhh...not). Carissa led worship, so I was able just to visit with my Cross Community family, meet lots of guests, and pray with my friends around the altars.

During the first part of the service, however, two of my kids hijacked the announcement time. Zach and Hannah, who are part of Journey Church in Cleveland, attended our service. It was such a nice surprise!! Hannah shared from Proverbs 31, and Zach prayed a prayer of blessing over me. It was priceless...

They had planned for videos to be shown. Technical difficulties prevented that (which was probably good because I would have been overwhelmed). Adam recorded a video and posted it on facebook--He's my serious-minded child who never cracks a joke...NOT! He had to work at the Akron-Canton airport yesterday. No doubt he thwarted several terrorist plots and patted down a few oversized folks...

Sarah sent a sweet video....Zach and Hannah also made one for me. I'll post them as soon as I can.

Then Hannah wrote the most precious blog. Click it HERE. (Check back regularly to Hannah's blog.)

I love, love, love my kids and grandkids.

After church, we dined at Cracker Barrel--Bailey joined Roger, Zach, Hannah and me. It was crowded, delicious and fun!

Later in the afternoon, Roger and I, along with the Merritts, Tuskans, and Evelyn Kennedy took a road trip to New City Church in Cleveland, serving a pasta dinner and enjoying the ministry there. Pastor Dave and Jamie Bever and the leadership team are doing a wonderful work for God on the westside!

Sunday....Mother's Day....was full and very rich! It's all about loving God first, and then loving the people in your life. Love family...love friends...love strangers. It's the thing that makes life worthwhile!

Happy Mother's Day

2011-05-08T07:44:00.000-04:00

For those of you who don't know me, I'm Sarah Bush, Lori's oldest child. I decided to hijack her blog today, being that it's Mother's Day ~~and brag on her a little. (It was a tough fight, but like her, I am persistent!)

Quite often my mom will blog about people in her family (she's great about doing that on their birthdays), she loves doting on her grandchildren, and more importantly she's consistently writing about Jesus ... and sometimes even YOU! :)

But today is Mother's Day, so today is about my Mom!

My Mom... wow, where do I start first??

My mom is one of "those" people. You know, the kind that can do anything she sets her mind to, the kind that ALWAYS put others needs before her own, the kind that notices a need even before you speak it, she walks into a room and lights it up, when you first meet her you feel like you have known her for years, when you talk to her - she makes you feel like everything you have to say is so important. She is good in crisis and yet is also easy to be with when all is normal and boring in life. She is a visionary, she can rally people together like no other, connect people and help people find their purpose. The ultimate encourager--That's my mom!

Being the oldest of four children, I asked my siblings what they would say is the top three things that my Mom has taught them. Here is what they said:

Adam~ 1. To respect. 2. The ability to listen to others. 3. Worship

Zach ~ 1. Be selfless 2. Be genuine. 3. Be loving

Hannah~ 1. To respect authority. 2. To put others first 3. To use wisdom.

Today, I'd like to talk about some of the things she has not only taught me but lived in front of me:

* "Jesus is way more!" She taught me and showed me that Jesus-- regardless of your circumstances, regardless of the opposition, regardless of the prognosis, regardless of what others are saying... Jesus is way more than anything. When you need a healer, He is your healer. When you need comforted, He is closer than a brother and will never leave you or forsake you. When you need support, He will carry you. When your life is a wreck, He will be your peace. He is more than able to meet ANY need!

* "Your emotions will lie to you!" I learned from a very early age that I wasn't allowed to live and form opinions based on my emotions. One minute they are up, life is good, the coffee is hot, the birds are singing and world peace looks possible. The very next minute, our emotions can swing the opposite way and all hell seems to be breaking loose! Life stinks, I spill my coffee all over myself! Birds?? What birds?? - besides, what is there to sing about anyway? :) You get the overly dramatic point right? She taught me to live and respond by what I know not what I feel.

* "Plan ahead!" Mom always taught me to look down the road. "What can you do today that will make your tomorrow better?" She is the ultimate planner, can map out an entire year at a time and then executes them seamlessly. The things that she can plan on a half a piece of ripped paper always blew me away!

My mom, although I know she has her weaknesses and flaws, she is one of the greatest women on this earth. She loves her Jesus, loves her family, loves people and loves to be busy helping all those things mesh!

Sometimes we often go through life without telling the ones closest to us how we feel about them. We tend to wait until tragedy strikes to honor people. Today I want my mom to know how LOVED she is and how her life has impacted thousands of people world-wide!

Mom, you are a blessing and I can't believe God chose me to be your daughter! <3

Happy Mother's Day, I love you!

Sis

P.S. - If you are lucky enough to see my Mom today, please hug her for me!

Never Too Old!

2011-05-06T07:42:00.001-04:00

Yesterday was a busy day. It was a great day, filled with paper work and visiting time with lots of wonderful people. Late in the afternoon, Roger and I slipped out of town to see our Wadsworth grandkids (and kids, too!). After dinner, we took a walk to the park. Though it was only in the low 60's, the beautiful sunshine made it impossible NOT to finally get outside and play.

I often witness people missing out on the "fun things" by excusing themselves with, "I'm too old for that..."

Hmmm... I've thought about it, and can't remember ever hearing any rules like that???

Admittedly, as I age, I am too old to whine, to expect others to pay my way, to throw temper tantrums, and many other immature things.

But when it comes to fun? We're never too old!

Don't allow the calendar or the pressures of your circumstances lie to you. You can ENJOY life! Go ahead--jump...dance...slide....

Praying HIS Prayer

2011-05-05T01:58:00.000-04:00

Today is the National Day of Prayer. I hope that you'll take a few minutes to pray for our nation, for our homes, and for the hurting, broken people around the world.

Roger preached a great sermon sometime back on The Lord's Prayer. Click on the website and download the podcast. I know you'll be blessed!

Cross Community Life

A Boy Who Was Traded for a Horse

2011-05-04T06:35:00.000-04:00

Yesterday I was privileged to speak to the local chapter of International Association of Administrative Professionals at Ohio Business College. I was very impressed with the facilities of OBC, and even more so with the faculty and students. While there, I briefly shared the story of George Washington Carver.

In A Boy Who Was Traded for A Horse, by James Saxon Childers, I learned that Dr. George Washington Carver started with nothing. He never had anything. Yet out of nothing he had created inestimable wealth for fellow human beings, to whom he had devoted his life.

He was born a slave with no name. He did not know his father or mother, and didn’t even know his birthday.

He was born in a rude slave cabin on the farm of Moses Carver near Diamond Grove, Missouri. Moses Carver owned his mother, and a neighbor owned his father. When he was a baby six months old, night riders swooped down on his master’s plantation and carried away a number of slaves, among them the baby and his mother.

In their flight, the raiders took no care of the child. He developed whooping cough and was dying when emissaries sent out by Moses Carver arrived from Missouri to buy back the stolen slaves. These emissaries finally struck a bargain with the might riders. The baby was evaluated and traded back to his owner…he was traded for a broken-down race horse worth about $300.

He worked for his own schooling with amazing persistence. All of his life was devoted to taking common, everyday things and making something out of next to nothing. For example:

From wood shavings, he created synthetic marble;

From peanut shells, insulating walls for houses;

From the muck of swamps and the leaves of the forest floor, valuable fertilizers;

From cow dung—paint;

From common, ordinary peanut—285 useful products (milk, butter, cheese, candies, instant coffee, pickles, sauces, oils, Shaving lotion, wood stains, dyes, lard, linoleum, flour, breakfast foods, soap, stock foods, face power, tan remover, shampoo, printer’s ink, and even axle grease);

From sweet potato—118 products (flour, meal, starch, library paste, vinegar, shoe blacking, ginger, ink, rubber compound, chocolate compound, dyes, molasses, wood filler, caramels.);

From clays of the earth—non-fading paints and pigments;

From worn-out sandy soil—produced paying crops;

He said, “When you do the common things of life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world.”

Hmmmm.... I have no excuses not to be who I was created to be. There are no waivers that allow limitations in my creativity and accomplishments.

We are here because an infinitely creative God chose to make us in His image. And then through personal relationship with Him, He fills us with Himself. WOW! Not only do we look like Him, but we contain creativity!

My question for today: What can I do that's never been done before, that will bless others in ways they have never been blessed before?

Getting Shortchanged by God

2011-05-03T09:05:00.000-04:00

What a busy day that lies before me! No complaints, though. I wish that I liked coffee because I hear that it gives most people a bit of energy? I have tried coffee on and off throughout my lifetime, and always thought that when "I grew up" I would like it. Eeeewww... Guess I still haven't grown up! (That explains a lot, right?)

But there is "energy" in chocolate...and I LOVE that! Guess I need to grab a couple of Hershey's kisses~

Because my mind is on my lecture for the Ohio Business College later today, I have nothing significant to share on my blog. (However, I do have a few scattered ideas floating around for the next couple of days.) So, to give the blog some substance today, I re-post one of Pastor Steven Furtick's entries.

Now a man crippled from birth was being carried to the temple gate called Beautiful, where he was put every day to beg from those going into the temple courts. When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked them for money. Then Peter said, “Silver or gold I do not have, but what I have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.”
Acts 3:2-3,6

I think one of the great difficulties in life is letting go of what we think we need so that we can have what God wants for us.

The man wanted money. It’s what he desired. It’s what he thought he needed.

But it’s not what he got. Peter and John’s monetary resources were limited. But the power of Christ that was at their disposal was unlimited. And so he walked.

While the man ended up rejoicing, I can’t help but wonder what he thought when he first heard Peter say that they didn’t have any silver or gold. He was probably disappointed. Silver and gold was exactly what he wanted. But the truth is that if Peter would have had money in that situation, the man would never have gotten to walk. And what’s better: having some money, or being able to walk for the rest of your life?

Not getting what you want or are expecting is never easy. It can sometimes feel like you’re getting shortchanged by God. You can come to believe that you’re missing out on your best life. That you’ve lost something irreplaceable.

But like the crippled man, we have to flip our perspective. We have to understand that if we got what we wanted, it might mean forfeiting what we really need. If God shuts down the thing you desire, it may be because He desires something even better. If God doesn’t do what you’re hoping He will, He must be planning to do something bigger and better.

For example, what’s better:

The relationship you had that you thought would last a lifetime, or the relationship God has for you that He wants to last a lifetime?

The job you really wanted but didn’t get, or the job God has custom tailored for you that’s waiting in its place?

Your destiny never depends on anyone or anything that leaves your life. Or on a desire that doesn’t end up being fulfilled. Let go of what you wanted. Take hold of what God wants for you.

God will never shortchange you. If God has shut down something you desired recently, I dare you to believe that He’s got something better for you on the way.

Excited About This Week!

2011-05-02T09:03:00.000-04:00

Oh, my! I didn't blog yesterday. I didn't even realize it....WHEW! OK. It WAS a busy day, but it was a wonderful day. So no complaints.

Sunday Highlights:

1. Roger and I both were trying to escape the residual symptoms of the "ICK" that we've been struggling with for a couple of weeks. During early rehearsal, the worship team was so sympathetic and supportive. During my "hacking attacks" in each song, they were willing to just hit a bit of each tune and then bring an early end to practice. I love my teammates! Cheryl brought me water...Jay brought me more water later...and Anthony gave me vile-tasting little pellets, called "Fisherman's Friend." EWWWW....but you know what? They REALLY helped! (Gotta get my own supply now...)

2. God met with us in very unique ways during the morning service. (I didn't cough once--YAY!). Several individuals testified how God ministered to them in very deep ways...I love HIS faithfulness!

3. We enjoyed lunch with Todd and Carissa (our youth pastor), and met their special friends, Chris and Marianne from Canada. What an enjoyable time...lots of laughter, transparency, authenticity, holiness, a few tears, and lots of renewed hope in God's restorative plan. We're anxious to have more time with our new friends...somehow...someway.

4. After a change of clothing...from our Sunday morning attire, to our jeans and comfy shoes, Roger and I pulled the food and supplies together, and loaded up the van. Evelyn Kennedy joined with us for our little road trip to Cleveland. It was fun to get to know her better, and to serve alongside with her.

We served a simple meal of hot dogs and sides to the precious people of New City Cleveland. Pastor Dave and Jamie Bever have labored in this work for three years--along with several other faithful co-laborers. Serving food doesn't seem like much, but we want to obey Jesus' command to "feed the hungry." And we want to provide a section of the support for what God is doing through this amazing outreach ministry.

Later, when the lights were off, I was overwhelmed with a sense of gratitude to my God. To see HIM at work through peoples' words, hugs, and actions made me smile so much that it was hard to fall asleep.

Who cares if anyone ever remembers my name? Who cares if people think that our church is a great church? Bottom line of my passion is: I care that everyone hears HIS name, and experience the amazing life that HE provides.

14 Things Older Leaders Should Know About Younger

2011-04-30T06:34:00.000-04:00

Nearly 12 years ago, I gained another son. Matt married Sarah...and our family was enlarged and blessed! One reason that I wished we lived closer to Matt and Sarah (who are in Florida; we are in Ohio), is so that I could have lots more l-o-n-g conversations with Matt. I love to hear him share his heart for God, his passion for the gospel, and his dreams for the future.

He sent me the link to this posting, and I want to share it with you. I am an older leader. But God is giving me the gifts of MANY younger leaders, and I want to be faithful to do my part. So, this is dedicated to my fellow "older leaders." [grin]

This is written by Brad Lomenick on www.churchleaders.com.

I love leaders. Young leaders. Older leaders. Leaders in the Church. Leaders in business. Next Generation leaders. Seasoned leaders. In all sectors.

And I’m incredibly hopeful regarding this next wave of Church leaders. Incredibly excited and hopeful and expectant. Expectant that they are going to take the reins and move things forward like no other generation before them.

And I’m incredibly grateful for the older leaders who have come before us, paving the way.

As with all generations, there are things that we can learn from each other. Younger pastors and leaders need to learn from those who’ve come before them. And older pastors and leaders need to embrace, understand, and release the next generation since they will be taking over and leading over the next 30-40 years.

So whether you are a younger 20-something leader or a seasoned 60-something leader, here are some points I hope will help you understand each other, work together, and ultimately, lead more effectively.

Younger leaders in general seem to all exhibit these qualities and characteristics as a generation:

1. Passion for God. Everyone seems to think we’ve lost a generation of Christ followers in our country, but after seeing the 23,000 college students gathered at Passion a few weeks ago and the 20,000 + who gather at Urbana every other year and the 20,000 who were just in Kansas City for the IHOP One Thing gathering and the thousands and thousands attending Hillsong United events and Jesus Culture gatherings and, of course, the 25,000 leaders who gather at Catalyst events- this instills confidence that the next generation of leaders love Jesus and are passionate about serving Him and making Him known for their generation.

2. Willing to work together. Twenty- and thirty-somethings are more willing to collaborate than any other generation before. They trust each other. Really. And see collaboration as the starting point, not some grandiose vision of teamwork that is far off in the distance. Collaboration is now the norm. It’s hard to believe, but it’s true- young leaders don’t care who gets the credit. For the next generation- it’s way less about WHO and way more about WHAT.

3. Generosity and sharing are the new currencies of our culture. In business, relationships, networks, platforms, technology, distribution, content delivery, etc., open source is the new standard. This new wave of leaders has tools/resources such as Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, Flickr, Instagram, and tons more social media tools that make influencing much more readily available and easier than ever before. The currency with all of these social mediums is being generous. Sharing your ideas, sharing links, sharing friends, sharing networks. This is a complete paradigm shift from 30-40 years ago.

4. Understand the holistic responsibility of influence. Willing to connect all of life together- faith, compassion, charity, work, career, church, family, friends. It’s all connected. There is way less compartmentalizing of life among the next generation of leaders.

5. Authenticity and humility wins. Trust is incredibly important. Leaders won’t have followers going forward unless they trust them and see that they are authentic and real. Authenticity is not only important to the next generation; it’s a requirement. The next generation wants to follow leaders who are willing to admit that they don’t know it all.

6. Not willing to wait. Young leaders are ambitious and passionate about making a difference now. Not willing to wait their turn. They want to influence now. Evidence of this is the explosion of church planters in the last 4-5 years. Reality is you are never really “ready” for anything. Some say that you should wait until you are “mature” enough to pursue certain things in life. But we’re never really ready, are we? At 22, I didn’t think I was ready. At 25, I didn’t think I “knew” enough. As my friends from the UK would say…“Rubbish!”

7. See social justice as the norm. Leaders who care about the poor and lean into causes and see the social gospel as a key ingredient to following Christ are no longer seen as the exception. Young leaders see taking care of the poor and sharing the Gospel as BOTH crucial to the advancement of the Church and of God’s Kingdom. Twenty-somethings, I believe, are and will continue to become more balanced in their pursuit of both. They don’t have to be one or the other.

8. Seeking wisdom and mentors. Overall, I sense that 20- and 30-somethings are highly willing to be mentored and are hungry for wisdom from older leaders around them. Those of us Gen X’ers tend to think we have it all figured out. Millenials and Gen Y are assumed to have it all figured out because they have so many tools and technology at their fingertips. But from what I’ve experienced, they still are seeking wisdom just as much as any other generation before them.

9. At the end of the day, a humble and authentic leader will “win” in the long run. Many times in our 20s and in our culture, being “loud,” aggressive, “win now,” arrogant, and transactional will get you big results fast. But over the long term, people would much rather partner and work with leaders who are humble, authentic, relational, win/win focused, and not always thinking about themselves. Being real and being generous wins.

10. WHO you are working with is just as important as WHAT you are working on. One of the major things I’m learning in my 30s: The journey is much more fun when you are working and locking arms with those you love being around. This is incredibly important to the next generation of leaders. It’s all about community and a sense of family.

12. We need to understand each other. Pursue us- we’re not in it for the long haul anymore. Forty and under leaders in general are more about projects than they are about careers. More about movements instead of organizations. So if you want to keep us around in your organization, you’re going to have to pursue us. Show us you are approachable and connected to where we are in life. Understand us- make an effort to be in touch with our generation. Listen to us. It doesn’t mean you have to dress like us (not all the time anyway!!), but when you make a concerted effort to be in touch with what we are in touch with, it makes a huge difference. We’re motivated by making a difference and being part of something bigger than ourselves.

13. Every leader still wants to be developed. Train, inspire, and connect us. Train us- once you’ve got us on your team, pour into us. We may not show it, but we truly desire to be mentored, and we need wise sages and mentors who will train us up. Constantly look for ways to pass on your insights to us. We are hungry for mentors and are open to you passing on your wisdom. And not just your successes and the things you’ve done right- we want to know what you’ve failed at, both to make you “human” as well to learn from your experience so we won’t make the same mistakes.

Inspire us- cast vision for us. Motivate us through painting a picture of where we are headed. Lead us. But don’t manage us. Managing to you means something completely different than it does to us. You were schooled on the management theories of the '80s. Major generation gap here. And a source of lots of tension that is difficult to manage. Connect us- we are drawn towards community and relational networks through which we can make an impact and affect change. Community is incredibly important to us, in any context. We want to climb the hill together, not by ourselves.

14. Kick us out. Release us- literally, kick us out. Not only give us permission to leave, but actually encourage us to leave and pursue other things. Once it’s time for us to move on, we might need your encouragement to pursue what God might be stirring up in us. Especially during the last couple of years, when it was much easier to just hang on than to really let go and chase after our dreams. We’re not leaving because we’re “giving up” on your vision; we just want to make ours a reality.

Watching the Wedding from my Bed...

2011-04-29T09:49:00.000-04:00

I woke up without the alarm to watch the wedding. Roger watched parts of it as he dozed off and on. I was up at 4:30AM and am just now getting around to "starting my day." What a beautiful event! I loved the hats, the honor, the sophistication. How romantic it was....

And the kiss? So sweet. Glad he kissed her twice!

Now back to reality...cleaning up the kitchen, and then spending the rest of the day with MY "Prince Charming!"

Strong Winds are Blowing!

2011-04-28T06:14:00.000-04:00

One amazing sight in Africa is the landscape during a storm. The terrain is so vast that if you look in one direction, you can see storm clouds and rain; but a shift of focus sees the clearing sunshine behind it. It is a breathtaking perspective.

We don't have this same perspective opportunity here in Ohio--when it comes to physical storms. There are too many buildings, landmarks, objects that get in the way. We usually only see what is just right around us.

When I awoke to LOUD winds this morning, and quickly looked out the window to see what the large trees near the house were doing, my first "natural" emotion was a tinge of fear. I wasn't sure what was going on, and the sounds were startling. Once I saw that everything was still in place, the fear was gone.

There are some other storms brewing all around me in lots of different lives. Some are emotional, others are family related. Still others are blowing back and forth in adversarial winds of stress, lack of employment, ... and the list continues.

Of course, I pray for my struggling friends. And then I remember the African terrain. I am reminded of a proper, "larger" perspective. Yes, there are storms--and some are fierce! But behind the storm is sunshine.

Are you in a storm today? Hold on through the fearsome sounds and feelings. When nothing seems stable, Jesus is our Rock. He won't blow away. In fact, He said that He would hide you under His arm during times of shaking. I know it's dark and scary at times, but sunshine WILL come again!

Friends...Priceless

2011-04-27T07:26:00.000-04:00

What a wonderful gift God gave to us when He created friends. I can't imagine life without people, you know? I have lots of blood relatives...lots of relatives by marriage...and THOUSANDS of friends. I was scanning down through my list of friends on facebook, remembering specific times with them. And then their faces reminded me of other friends who are not on facebook. WOW! I'm really rich!

Today, I'm privileged to take a road trip with two of my younger friends (and their mommy, too!). Noah, Isabella and Amanda and I are headed to Cleveland Clinic for a medical appointment. My job? I will serve as the nanny...substitute grandma...and all-around "spoiler of the wee ones!" Isabella is scheduled for a cat scan. It seems that a lump has appeared on her head, and the doctors want to check it out further, and then take care of it. So while Mommy is with Isabella, Noah will take care of me. (And you know that's how it really works!).

I love these two babies...God's gifts to a young mommy who is like an adopted daughter...and a trusted friend.

FRIENDS...priceless.

GetMotivated.com

2011-04-26T07:58:00.000-04:00

What an opportunity! I'm really excited about May 11, and if you're in the Cleveland area, this is an event worth your consideration. Check out GET MOTIVATED. Nine leaders are coming to Quicken Loans Arena to share their unique insights with the crowd--in a format that is unavailable in any other place--all for $1.95 a person. Can you believe it? There's a group price that I'm using of $9.95 for 25 people. (When Lisa called to order these, they gave us 25 additional tickets for the same price!) So already, I'm gearing up for a fun ROAD TRIP!!!!

The nine speakers are touching on several important topics, but here are the ones that I'm anticipating:

Terry Bradshaw, (NFL Hall of Fame Quarterback)--"Achieving Success In Spite of Adversity"

Brian Tracy (America's top authority on selling)--"The Seven Secrets of Persuasion"

Goldie Hawn (Actor and Producer)--"Eliminating the Obstacles that Stand Between You and Your Goals"

General Colin Powell (Soldier/Statesman)--"How to Improve Processes, Organizations and People"

Bill Cosby (Comedian)--"How to Use Humor to Disarm and Audience"

Rick Belluzzo (Former President of Microsoft)--"Increase Performance in Tough Times with Inexpensive Yet Effective Incentives"

Rudy Giuliani (Mayor)--"Leading During Trying Circumstances"

Stanley McChrystal (General)--"Keeping Your Group Focused on the Goal"

Lou Holtz (Notre Dame Coach)--"The Vital Ingredients to Building Your Winning Team"

Now these are just one of several topics that each speaker will hit. Boy, it's gonna be good!!!

Today's going to be a fun day for me--staff meeting with some of the best people on the planet...lunch with a sweet friend...and then catching up on office work. Boy, a week of sickness can really set the schedules behind, you know? One thing that I have discovered about sickness is: you really appreciate health SO much more!

The Power of Love

2011-04-25T08:20:00.000-04:00

I'm gaining more and more of an appreciation for the greatest commandment in the Scriptures...Why? Because I'm having more and more challenging opportunities to put it into action and see the power that it contains.

That commandment came from the lips of Jesus, and is recorded in two Gospel books--Matthew 22:37-38 and Mark 12:30-31. Mark says it like this:

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”

The only way to see the power of love in action is to be placed in situations where we have a choice to either love or not love. "Not loving" comes naturally. It is our first gut reaction. We feel self-justified in "not loving."

People do or say something that goes against our grain. We react. We get angry. We give a piece of our minds. We "don't love."

Somebody hurts our feelings. Someone steals our rights. We strike back. We tell someone else about the inequity. We "don't love."

If loving people was easy to do, Jesus would not have had to COMMAND it.   We would automatically love. But Jesus knew that the enemy's tactic was to divide and destroy. If he could tempt us into substituting other things for love, then he could claim our hearts.

Truthfully, there are some people who are very difficult for me to love. I don't like their personality traits. Some of their words are simply offensive to my ears. I can't stand some of their habits. They repeatedly hurt my feelings. Some of them try to rebel against my authority. They talk about me behind their backs.   It's tough to love them.

When I'm struggling with someone in conflict, I usually tell Jesus all about it. ...He's such a wonderful listener. But He doesn't let me leave that conversation without speaking back to me. And you know what He says, don't you. He reminds me that HE faced the same things...only multiplied a million + times.

My challenge today--to place my personal feelings and perspectives inside of Jesus's perspectives, and then react as He would react.

I was deeply touched by watching this video today. Talk about LOVE IN ACTION. I'm not sure that I would have taken this Muslim into my home...but thank God for the physical therapist who did. WOW! I hope you'll take 8 minutes to watch this. It has stirred my heart in a powerful way.

Kamal Saleem: A Muslim Cries Out to Jesus

Easter is More than a Holiday for Me

2011-04-24T05:34:00.000-04:00

I've always loved Easter. As a kid, my parents made Easter special, buying us each a new outfit, and hiding nests of jelly beans. We colored eggs and ate chocolate bunnies. We told and retold the story of Jesus' crucifixion and resurrection. The springtime holiday captured my attention!

16 years ago, Easter changed for me. On that Good Friday, we had calling hours for my Mom. On Saturday, we buried my Mom. On Sunday, I didn't want to get out of bed. I was overwhelmed with grief. There are no words to adequately describe the depth of my pain. My dad had been buried five weeks earlier, after both of my parents were involved in an auto accident. He was taken to heaven immediately, but Mom lingered. We prayed. We claimed healing. We hoped. We cried. We begged God. And she died.

I don't know why God heals some and doesn't heal others. I can't explain His action (or what appears to be His lack of action.) But no matter what I experience, He is God. Period.

A few years after the funerals, Roger and I were privileged to travel to Israel. I saw Golgotha with my own eyes. I walked inside Jesus' empty tomb. Then we celebrated Communion in the garden. Something happened inside of me. I "got it."

Now, I'm not sure that I can wrap words around what happened in my heart that day. All I know is that when I saw the empty tomb, I realized the REALITY of Jesus...and the fact that He is not bound in that tomb, but HE IS ALIVE! And He said in His Word that WE can live because He lives!

Just a few weeks ago, we traveled to Indiana to visit with my Grandma. While in Lebanon, Indiana, we visited the cemetery where Dad and Mom are buried. For the first time in a long time, I didn't want to cry. But I heard these words echoing around and around inside of my head and heart, "They are not here. They have risen!" And indeed, the Scriptures remind me time and time again that "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord."

Oh, do I miss them? Are you kidding???? I wouldn't wish them back here after they've seen heaven. But there's not a day that passes when I don't think, "Hmmmm...I've got to remember to tell Dad and Mom about this or that when I see them." And I will see them again. [BIG GRIN] I really believe that when I see Jesus, Dad and Mom will be standing right next to Him. Talk about a "GROUP HUG!!!"

I've always loved Easter. As a adult, we try to make Easter special, buying little surprises for the grandkids, and hiding candy-filled eggs. We tell and retell the story of Jesus' crucifixion and resurrection. The springtime holiday continues to capture my attention...but now it's completely different for me. JESUS' RESURRECTION LIFE AND POWER have captured MY HEART!

Some Good Reads...

2011-04-23T05:46:00.000-04:00

I didn't post yesterday. So sorry. I've been struggling with this illness. This morning, I am up blogging--not necessarily because I "feel" like it. Rather, I woke up coughing, and can't stop. Instead of waking Roger, I am upstairs in the office. But I can't think of anything to write about. So, let me share some posts that I have enjoyed reading on other sites:

Stuck in Saturday (withoutwax.tv)

A Prayer for Protection (hollyfurtick.com)

Can Lack of Thoughtfulness and Romance Lead to Affairs? -- (lifegems4marriage.com)

Big Grace--(sarahmarkley.com)

Cough..Cough...

2011-04-21T06:45:00.000-04:00

Whew! This is really crazy! Roger contracted some kind of bug last week, and it knocked him down for several days. In his place, I carried the ball...and then Monday night after class, I fumbled. Since that point, I've been down for the count. Just lots of coughing, aches, congestion...and the best part? I've lost my voice. Yep, it's not even a good bass voice. I sound much like a chirping turtle. VERY unpleasant to hear!

(By the way, the photo is NOT me. There is NO way I would take a picture of ME right now!!!) [smile]

I had to miss our Seder Meal last night--and that was a real problem, in that I was the cook. Thanks to Amanda and Lisa...they saved the day! (I think that they both have Wonder Woman costumes hanging in their closets!) They set up, decorated, cooked, served, cleaned-up...Boy, I owe them big time!!!!

How I appreciate the homemade soup that has been delivered....and the MANY prayers said on our behalf. Roger is out and about, though he's still not 100%.

I've been noting on facebook how many of my friends are struggling with this same "icky-ness." So, as I'm recouping today, I'll be praying for them.

One perk of not being able to get out and "do regular life"--I'm getting some reading done. Ahhhh....nice!

29 years ago today...

2011-04-20T05:17:00.001-04:00

29 years ago today, our lives were radically altered. Our little family of three was expanded to include a tiny little guy weighing in at less than six pounds. Roger Adam joined the "Loomis Bunch." Some have applauded us for naming him after his dad and the first man on earth. But it's not quite like that. Oh, yes..."Roger" was derived from daddy.

But "Adam" originated with the Cartwright family. As a young boy, Daddy Roger loved Bonanza, and decided early on that his first son would be named after Ben Cartwright's first son. So, there you have it.

Roger also had a "Hoss," in that my dad gave that nickname to Zach. And then "Little Joe" arrived at the end of January when baby Joseph was born.

Adam has been a delight! Through the years, we've answered a million of his questions...with a zillion remaining unanswered or ignored. We've heard him sing at least a million times...and watched him grow into a mighty man of God.

On this birthday, we celebrate Adam's uniqueness, his giftings, his personality, and our love for him. He is irreplaceably priceless! In honor of his special day, I'm including some of his "greatest hits" in video form. Enjoy! [huge smile]

Want to be a Great Leader?

2011-04-19T05:09:00.000-04:00

I am in pursuit of more and more leadership skills so that I can be as effective as possible in the role in which God has placed me. I have resolved to raise up as many leaders as I possibly can. Why? Because people around the world desperately need godly leaders--those who can echo Paul's instructions, "Follow me, as I follow Christ."

I believe that God has called every believer to be a leader. We have found the way of eternal life, and are commanded to share that way with those who are still searching. Jesus is the way. We have learned the truth, while there are others who are sick and tired of living a lie. Jesus is the truth. We have been radically changed by the power of the Gospel, and are compelled to "lead the message" that Jesus is the life.

This morning, I opened up this blog post by Michael Hyatt, Why the Best Leaders are Great Followers, and simply want to share it with you. What an important truth.

When I first became an acquisitions editor, I took a proposal for a book on leadership to our Pub Board. (This is the group in a publishing company that determines what gets published and what doesn’t.) The consensus was that the book was not commercially viable. The market was just too small.

However, in 1998 everything changed. Thomas Nelson published the The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John C. Maxwell. I was the VP of Marketing at that time. My job was to help make the book a success.

Fortunately, John not only wrote a great book, but he worked tirelessly to help promote it. The result? The book hit the New York Times list and has now sold almost two million copies. It is still in Amazon’s top 1,000 books.

Since that time an entire industry has sprung up around the topic of leadership. It includes books, magazines, blogs, conferences, and even graduate degrees from major universities. Apparently, the market is vast. Why? Because nearly everyone sees him or herself as a leader.

But where are the followers?

I contend that if you want to be a great leader, you must first become a great follower. Although it is rarely discussed, this is where almost all of history’s greatest leaders got their start.

Joshua followed Moses for more than forty years before he led the children of Israel into the promised land.
Elisha served Elijah for ten years before he took up his master’s mantle and went on to perform even more miracles.
The Apostle Peter followed Jesus for three years—and made a lot of mistakes—before he and his fellow-disciples “turned the world upside down” (see Acts 17:6).

Though I don’t have time to develop it here, I would likewise contend that history’s worst leaders never learned to follow. As a result, they became tyrants, making the lives of their own followers miserable.

So what does a great follower look like? I would suggest great followers share at least five characteristics:

They are clear. They understand their role. You can’t be a good follower unless you have clearly identified the leader. While you may be a leader in your own realm, everyone has a boss—including you. Great followers not only accept this fact but embrace it.
They are obedient. While obedience may be a politically incorrect concept, it is essential for organizational effectiveness. No one should be allowed to give orders who can’t obey orders. This is how great leaders model to their own followers the standards of acceptable behavior.
They are servants. This is crucial. Great followers are observant. They notice what needs to be done to help the leader accomplish his or her goals. Then they do it—joyfully, without grumbling or complaining.
They are humble. Great followers don’t make it about them. They are humble. They shine the light on the leader. They make their own boss look good—especially in front of his or her boss.
They are loyal. I have written on this before. Great followers never speak ill of their boss in public. This doesn’t mean they can’t disagree or even criticize. It just means that they don’t do it in public. Great followers understand that public loyalty leads to private influence.

I feel like I have only scratched the surface. If you want to be a great leader, begin by asking, “How can I be a better follower?” or “How can I make make my boss more successful?”

A L-O-N-G, but GREAT Day!

2011-04-18T08:05:00.000-04:00

If you read yesterday's post, you know what was planned. Here's how it all came out...

Roger stayed home all day because he is just not feeling well. He's going to the doctor tomorrow--and he's planning to teach tonight at CSC.

Because he didn't attend, and it was a last-minute decision, there was no time to call in replacements. So I preached and led worship...the team did a great job! We had many new faces in the crowd, and it was exciting to be able to meet them personally so that they were no longer "one of a crowd." Mike Veverka shared his testimony of salvation. YAY, Mike! But even more so--YAY, GOD!!!!

Lunch was fun. Roger was out of bed and didn't want us to change our lunch plans. The Veverkas, Christian and Nada came over for the meal. (Now if any of them get sick, it's not MY fault! :-)

The Kenyan Missions Team meeting was inspiring. Five of my African friends--Andrew, Miriam, Sharon, John and Zipporah--joined us for questions and answers. Miriam made delicious samosas....(that was one of the highlights of my day)! We ate, we sang "There is Power in the Blood" in Kiswahili, and Miriam led in some Kenyan worship. Then Andrew and John prayed for us and our divine assignment both in English and in Kiswahili. (Ooooohhh, how that charges my battery!!!)

Our church family is the best there is! They really do live out the vision statement, Loving God--Loving People. They do it in many tangible, measurable ways. One token of this love was a huge bowl of chicken soup (Puerto Rican recipe) made by Grandma Virginia Rivera just for Roger. Thankfully the bowl is so large, that I just have to help eat it!!!

As soon as the missions gathering concluded, about 20 of us traveled to Cleveland's NEW CITY ANNIVERSARY celebration. (Yep, you know I love ROAD TRIPS!) WOW! WOW! WOW! It was a challenging, exciting, wonderful evening! I so love to watch "God in action." I sat on the front row, right in front of the speakers...and totally absorbed the sights and sounds of this amazing, divine adventure. Now, I may not be as young as the rest; my Hip Hop may have hopped away years ago...but I am TOTALLY in for what God is doing in Cleveland! Again last night, the Holy Spirit gave me some instructions about the role that Roger and I...Cross Community...and Cross Study Center are to play. WHEW!

I went to bed last night very tired...but VERY excited that God is allowing us to live in this place, at this time, for HIS purpose. WOW! Oh, WOWIE!!!

A Whole Lotta Stuff Goin' On!

2011-04-17T05:39:00.000-04:00

What a great weekend this is! Yep, we've had lots of rain and even some hail yesterday. But it's better than snow!!!!

I'm in the middle of this two-day adventure, and am already on the run early this morning. Some highlights so far:

We went to Playhouse Square on Friday night. I blogged about that.
Bailey, Zach's girlfriend, is spending the weekend with us, so it's been fun to have time with her. She's such a sweetheart.
Elevate North's service was really good last night. Ginny rode with me, and that ALWAYS makes for an encouraging time! Several folks from our different churches were there, and I was able to make some new friends. (You'll notice that I said "our" churches. They're not all under our supervision...but no matter what label they wear, if they preach Jesus as the only way to heaven, they are MY church!) Pastor Dave and Jamie Bever make my heart smile!

Today promises to be a Kingdom-expanding kind of day.

I'm putting the food in the crock pot for our lunch. (Thank GOD for crockpots! They were created for busy people like me who can't be home all the time to cook...)
Worship practice is at 8:15 AM with some of my favorite people.
Mike, Erin and Jacob Veverka are traveling from Wadsworth to be in our service this morning. Mike is going to share his testimony. Love that family! They'll be joining us for lunch, so we'll have some fun visiting time.
The Africa missions team is gathering at 4PM. The Cheges, my friends from Kenya, are going to share with the team--both advice and my favorite Kenyan food--samosas! Only two more months until we leave~
We're traveling to the New City Anniversary celebration in inner-city Cleveland tonight. I can't wait to see what God is doing in the urban area, and discover what role we are to play.

Roger is still feeling rough. This cold/flu thing has really kicked him...and he got the flu shot! He insists on preaching this morning (but I have a sermon ready--just in case!) Thanks for praying for him.

There's not much "encouragement" in this posting. But several have written saying, "What is going on there?" So there you have it! [smile].

A Night at the Theater

2011-04-16T07:31:00.000-04:00

Last night we enjoyed a rare treat--a night at the Palace Theater to see Les Miserables. WOW! What a show! Just traveling to Playhouse Square with Ron and Sue Giusti was fun. Then the beautiful architecture, fabulous music and amazing visual effects made the experience a wonderful memory.

The story line, photos, music and everything can be found HERE.

It's always nice to do something different, isn't it? I'm very much a "routine person," having lots of regularly scheduled tasks to complete. However, whenever an adventure is available, count me in! (And there are MANY adventures planned for the next few months!!)

Why not do something a little different this week? Go ahead. Mix it up. Stretch a little outside of your normal routine...It's a great stress reliever!

Just Like Family...

2011-04-15T07:03:00.000-04:00

One of the "perks" (in addition to salvation, eternal life, peace, provision, wisdom, protection,...and to infinity and beyond!) of knowing Christ as Savior, is gaining a "new family." You keep your natural family, and inherit new brothers and sisters. So cool!

For some people, their Christian family is closer to them than their natural family. Wow--I love how God does this. He is all about making things brand-new, and filling empty places in our lives. Amazing!

I have SO many family members in Christ! I tried to count them once, but lost count.... They are each uniquely special, and I have been impacted by them forever.

Last Sunday morning, I intruded on a meeting. Oh, I didn't mean to, but I had to get something from Roger's desk. A group of guys was meeting, and my presence solicited "brother-like" comments. (You know how those "brothers" can be!)

These guys oversee the building and grounds. OH, HOW WE APPRECIATE THEM! What hard-working, Jesus-loving guys they are! Left to right are Jim, Rich, Russ, Jay, and Mike. Missing from the photo is Todd. Some say he's out getting things done, but I'm wondering! [smile]

I could tell you about the many hours these men have invested into the Kingdom of God through Cross Community, but there's not enough time. I could describe the results of their work, but there's not enough room.

The thing that inspires me is that they work for the cause of Christ--to make HIM big in this region--and they don't just fill a position. They don't work for the applause of people. That blesses me!

So today's blog is a shout-out to the hard-working people in our lives; who go unnoticed most of the time; but who "keep on going!"

Whatever you have on your schedule today--do it as if you're doing it for the Lord, and He will supernaturally bless others through it.

Focus on What's Missing in Life Can Cause You to Miss What's There

2011-04-14T06:44:00.000-04:00

Did you see this post by Lori Lowe? Recently, this is something that I've been talking to others about. Why not check it out?

If you’re looking at a tiled ceiling or floor and one tile is missing, your eye will be drawn to that missing tile, and you’ll continue to focus on that missing tile rather than the rest of the tiles. Dennis Prager calls this the “Missing Tile Syndrome” and says it explains why many of us focus on what is missing in our lives instead of what we have. This tendency causes us much unhappiness. Let me explain.

The problem is that in life, we will always have something missing, and even when we don’t, we may imagine a more perfect and complete life.

Sometimes a lack in ourselves may focus on what others have that we don’t. If we want a flat stomach, we notice people with flat stomachs. If we want perfect hair or radiant skin, we notice others with perfect hair or radiant skin. If we want fancy clothes, we notice others with fancy clothes. If we want to become pregnant, we see pregnant bellies everywhere. But we are creating our own unhappiness by focusing on what others have that we do not.

We frequently impose the missing tile syndrome on others as well, figuring out what trait they have that is missing rather than focusing on the traits they have that are strong. In Happiness is a Serious Problem, Prager shared that when he was seeking a mate, this was exactly what he did. After each date with a different woman, he would identify her missing trait. He’d call his friend and say he figured out the most important trait he was looking for, and it was always the one the recent date lacked—whether intelligence or attractiveness or sense of humor. It took his friend to point out his habit for him to embarrasingly realize what a destructive one it was.

I admit sometimes I focus on the attributes my children do not have (which I think are critical at the moment) rather than on the great characteristics they do have. I do it with my husband at times, and even more frequently with myself. Sometimes I wish I had more talent, other times longer legs, more patience, greater creativity—the list goes on and on.

If we are unhappy with ourselves, it’s extremely difficult to be the perfect mate for our partner. And if we are picking others apart, it’s nearly impossible for them to appear right for us at the same time.

Prager sums it up well: “It is human nature to concentrate on what is missing and deem it the Most Important Trait. Unless we teach ourselves to concentrate on what we do have, we will end up obsessing over missing tiles and allow them to become insurmountable obstacles to happiness.”

Possible Solutions
Now that we know this is a problem and realize its power in our lives, what can we do to minimize its effect? Whether you perceive something is missing in your life or in your marriage, follow these steps:

1)       Clarify what you perceive to be the missing item in your life (or marriage), or what you think may be troubling you.

2)      Decide if this missing item is central to your happiness or whether you can be happy without it. From here, you can either “get it, forget it, or replace it.”

3)      If the item is within your power to obtain, and it is central to your happiness, focus on how you might “get it.” Examples might include wanting a high school or college diploma, finding a mate, having another child, spending more time with your spouse, or moving to another state.

4)      If the item is not within your power, do your best to “forget it” or at least to try not to think about it as much. Examples might include lamenting a past failed relationship or (as in the author’s case) wishing he didn’t have to share custody of his child and see him only half time. There are items in our lives that will always bother us, but we may need to stop focusing so much attention on them and make the best of what we do have. If it bothers you that your husband doesn’t do dishes, but he’s a good husband who helps in other ways and doesn’t like to do dishes, think about forgetting that fault and moving on.

5)      Replace your missing item with something else. It reminds me of the star athletes who are injured and who go on to have successful, inspiring careers in another field. Focusing on the inability to play football would only increase unhappiness, while creating a new dream helps bring fulfillment. Similarly, I’ve known individuals who were unable to have their own children, but who used increased time devoted to nieces and nephews as a way to fill their lives with the joy of children. There can be less important repacements as well. Maybe you always dreamed of having a wife who is a great cook, and yours doesn’t enjoy cooking, but she is a generous wife and mother. Think about the reasons why you chose your wife instead.

The solutions may not be perfect, but they can bring you closer to a happy life. You may even find the new path brings you in exciting new directions you never expected. Do you recognize the Missing Tile Syndrome in your life?

Lori Lowe has other great articles at: www.lifegems4marriage.com.

Find More "ME TIME" Every Day

2011-04-13T06:45:00.000-04:00

I subscribe to the Weight Watchers email group, and received this one. Thought I'd share it with you~

The minute you get up for a little "me" time - read a book, make a phone call - your family, your office, your parents are all at your heels like newborn pups. Here's how to teach the people in your life a new trick: how to let you be you for a bit.

Do you wish scientists were already cloning people? Then they could make a Superwoman version of you to handle the chores, bills and nine-to-five commitments, while you take a little deserved time out to pamper yourself.

"Most of us live each day barely one step ahead of our commitments," says Gayle Reading, a time management consultant from Miami, who runs private and corporate workshops and for the last ten years has specialized in streamlining work schedules for women juggling careers and family. "Unfortunately, being chronically busy is a fast track to burn-out. That's why people come to me - to have someone give them permission to make simple lifestyle changes to get more time to themselves."

Sound appealing? Here are some of Reading's tips that will help you add an hour to every day:

In the morning:

Get up earlier and go for a walk, so your evening is free to relax after work.
Buy groceries for tonight's dinner on your way to work, rather than on the way home - the store will be less crowded.
Put in a load of wash and get your partner to help you hang it out. When you get home, it will be done.
Clean one room before you go to work - by the weekend the housework will be done.
Spend fifteen minutes soaking in an aromatherapy bath before the kids are awake. "You won't oversleep any more because you'll look forward to getting out of bed," says Reading.

In transit (on the bus or train):

Write birthday cards or letters.
Read the newspaper (and skim the headlines) or listen to a talking book.
Work out your day's schedule.

At work:

Take breaks - go for a walk or head to the park for lunch - you'll work far more effectively all afternoon.
Ring ahead to check whether your doctor is running on time.
Make a "to do" list: "Then number each task in order of importance," says Reading. "Tackle the biggest most taxing job first and you'll feel more energized all day."
Stop being a perfectionist. "Learn where to cut corners and set times within which to complete tasks," Reading advises.

At night:

Grab your cordless phone and pay bills by credit card while you stir the minestrone.
Use your answering machine to screen calls and avoid unnecessary interruptions that eat into your night.
Get a friend or relative to pick up the kids from baseball practice. Then do the same for them next week.
While cooking, clean as you go.
Let it go. "Remember, nobody has ever died from an untidy house," says Reading. "Whereas overwork has been proven to lead to chronic fatigue, cancer, ulcers and heart attacks."

On weekends:

Delegate jobs like unloading the dishwasher to your partner and kids.
Food shop outside peak-hours so you don't waste time in lines. Reading suggests you: "Organize a buddy system with a friend, where you buy her groceries one week and she gets yours the next."
Cook in bulk and freeze the leftovers.
Say no to social engagements every Friday night. "Then make a date with your partner, even if you just dress up and enjoy a candlelit dinner at home - you'll feel like you've pampered yourself," says Reading.

Longing for Kenya~

2011-04-12T08:51:00.000-04:00

There are so many things going on in my life...and each is SO very special! Someone asked me last night, "How do you do it all?" I'm not quite sure how to answer that. In all actuality, I don't "do it all." I simply do lots of some things! [smile]

For years, I prayed that God would open doors of opportunity for ministry. And He has done just that! When He calls...He provides. For those things He has plans...He prepares.

No doubt, it's a season of open doors right now!

So between directing and teaching Cross Study Center, co-pastoring and administrating Cross Community Church, organizing Girlfriends (and the new Zumba class that we're soon to launch!), and the dozens of other things on my plate--I'm one satisfied gal! [another smile]

But today, I'm longing for Kenya.

Only 2 1/2 months to go before our next trip. Our team of ten will travel to the Kilimanjaro Basin in southern Kenya to assist in a evangelistic crusade, attempting to replant some struggling churches and reach new people for Christ. Then we will camp in the Masai Mara and participate in ministry, traveling from Masai village to village sharing the Gospel to people who have never before heard the message of hope in Christ. We'll love on our children in the Nairobi slums, and encourage new believers in their faith. Roger will be teaching pastors and other newly converted men about the doctrinal basics.

Oh, I'm anxious!

And... I'm working to build the two teams for 2012. Several people have expressed interest.

The last week of January/first week of February, I'm taking a team to minister to the Masai women as we present the second annual Masai Women's Conference (right out in the middle of the Kenyan bush!). I'm especially looking for women to join me on this trip.

Then I'll be going again next June/July for village ministry. It would be great if we could find medical personnel to help with a medical mission.

Maybe YOU will go with me next year?

How do you know if it is God's will for you to join me? If you have the desire to go, and it does not fade...if you find yourself so excited when you think about the possibility of going...if you can't get it off of your mind, you probably need to go!

Here's my advice to people. Step out in faith and secure your passport. Then begin to get your immunizations. All the while, ask God to definitely shut the door if it is not His will.

But here's the thing. In His Word, He commanded us to go into all the world and preach the gospel. I take that literally. He told me to go. It's in black and white. And if He tells me to do something, He will provide the resources. It's HIS ministry...HIS church...HIS plan.

For more info on my trips, check out HEADED FOR KENYA.

What a Weekend!

2011-04-11T06:21:00.000-04:00

I didn't post yesterday. That's rare. But this weekend was so crazy busy... It was great--just hectic!

Girlfriends T TIME on Saturday was off the charts fun...and spiritually powerful. Here are a few pics from the several that I posted on facebook--

It was great fun with delicious food...hilarious skit...and a dynamic testimony from Pastor Norva Ross, with a worship dance by her daughter, Brittany.

Pastor Norva shared her stories of God's faithful love in spite of numerous tragedies and struggles. Oh, it was wonderful!

She concluded with this poem. Several asked me to write it down so they could have a copy, so here goes.

The Blessing of a Storm

I did not know His love before,

the way I know it now.

I could not see my need for Him,

my pride would not allow.

I had it all, without a care,

the "Self-Sufficient" lie.

My path was smooth,

my sea was still,

not a cloud was in my sky.

I thought I knew His love for me.

I thought I'd seen His grace.

I thought I did not need to grow.

I thought I'd found my place.

But then the way grew rough and dark,

the storm clouds quickly rolled.

The waves began to rock my ship;

My anchor would not hold.

The ship that I had built myself

was made of foolish pride.

It fell apart and left me bare,

with nowhere else to hide.

I had no strength or faith to face

the trials that lay ahead.

And so I simply prayed to Him

and bowed my weary head.

His loving arms enveloped me,

and then He helped me stand.

He said, "You still must face this storm,

but I will hold your hand."

So through the dark and lonely night

He guided me through pain.

I could not see the light of day

or when the storm might wane.

Yet through the aches

and endless tears,

my faith began to grow.

I could not see it at the time,

but my light began to glow.

I saw God's love in brand new light;

His grace and mercy, too.

For only when all self was gone

could Jesus' love shine through.

It was not easy in the storm.

I sometimes wondered, "Why?"

At times I thought, "I can't go on."

I'd hurt, and doubt, and cry.

But Jesus never left my side.

He guided me each day.

Through pain and strife,

through fire and flood,

He helped me all the way.

And now I see as never before

how great His love can be.

Friends--Irreplaceable!

2011-04-09T02:17:00.000-04:00

There was a point in my life when I didn't feel that I really needed friends. After all, I was independent. "I" was all I needed...or so I thought.

As the years have passed, I've discovered a truth that is foundational. We were meant for connection; first to our Creator and Savior, and then to other people. Without both "connections" (in that order), we live an isolated, empty life.

Many want friendships, but don't know how to go about it. I stumbled upon this blog and thought I'd share it with you. In it, Michael Hyatt writes, Be the Friend You Wish You Had.

Today is a special day of friendships for me...Girlfriends Unlimited! You KNOW I'll be posting photos!

It's "Girlfriends Eve!"

2011-04-08T05:10:00.000-04:00

We arrived back home last night, and that means that today is a FULL day. Why? Tomorrow is Girlfriends Unlimited T TIME! We're expecting a huge turnout of ladies from all over the area to join together for a fabulous time of fun, laughter, delicious snacks, powerful testimony, and friendship development. I can hardly wait!

My granddaughter, Abigail (5 years old) is spending a couple of days with me, and has promised to help me finish all the items on my "to do" list. We're having a great time today--"Girlfriends Eve!"

We're baking cupcakes, going to Goodwill for some dress-up clothes, and setting up our party room.

Oh how fun!

If you're in the northern Ohio area, there is room for YOU!

Such a fun day away

2011-04-07T05:27:00.001-04:00

It's always good to take a break. And it's been so much fun to head westward and land in Indiana for the past couple of days.

We sat in Formosa Gardens Chinese Restaurant with my 94-year-old grandma on Tuesday. Sitting beside her as she enjoyed an eggroll...listening to stories of her childhood in the hills of Kentucky...introducing her to her newest great, great grandchild...and sharing special prayer time...PRICELESS.

This visit has certainly been "kid heaven" for the grandkids (and for me, too!). Dinner at Chuck E. Cheese...swimming...horseback riding...games--ah, this is the life!

Yesterday was filled with laughter, memories, conversation, and lots of activity. I've snapped at least 100 photos, but will wait until another day to post them.

I don't have anything of spiritual "depth" to discuss this morning. I don't feel very creative right now. But, it has been an amazing blessing to break routine, and just enjoy precious people. And for today...that's more enough!

It is SARAH DAY!

2011-04-06T04:37:00.001-04:00

Today is Sarah's birthday... I'll never forget her arrival! She came into the world in a way where the doctor, with grave concern, told Roger that he feared for both my safety and the safety of the baby. In fact, the worst case scenarios were discussed.

Sarah was born with much bruising...and for many months she struggled with breathing difficulties. But she survived.

I've watched her grow up, and become a great people lover. She definitely possesses the gift of encouragement. Through many difficult scenes of her life, she has learned to trust God and not complain. She has found that God is faithful to her and to His promises. She is one of those "glass half full" kind of people. When you're around her, it becomes contagious.

She's a wonderful wife and mother, too. But today I celebrate her as my firstborn joy! She'll always be my "little girl," whom I am thrilled to introduce to others as "a mighty woman of God."

Happy Birthday, Sis! Your dad and I love you so much.

Going to Grandma's House

2011-04-05T04:26:00.002-04:00

Over the river and through the woods to Grandmother's house we go....

Except our trip will be over the turnpike and through the state to Grandmother's house we go! Roger and I, along with Adam, Nickie and their kids, are trekking to Lebanon, Indiana early this morning. We want to see Grandma, who's 94 and still working in her yard! And it's Baby Joseph's first road trip.

We're taking advantage of the grandkids' spring break, and stopping routine to "take a break."

On the agenda will be lunch at Grandma's favorite Chinese restaurant. (The grandkids LOVE Chinese food, so it will be a treat all around.) We'll get lots of photos.

Then we're moving on up the road to Kokomo, Indiana to spend a day with my brother, Eric, and his wife, Lisa. Of course, my niece, Mia, is worth the drive!

We're leaving EARLY...so I don't have lots of time to blog today. Zach and Hannah are staying close to home so they can work. We've got the car packed with a little luggage, and BIG bags of snacks--important snacks like Fruit Roll-Ups, candy, yummy goldfish crackers, and other things that are still a secret. Shhh...

Are You Extraordinary?

2011-04-04T07:18:00.000-04:00

Ordinary days. Ordinary work. Ordinary food. Ordinary car. Ordinary plans. Sound familiar?

The word is defined as "of no special quality or interest; commonplace; unexceptional."

I feel pretty ordinary most of the time. Everything is commonplace, and I go through my routine.

Yet, when I look at Christ in the Scriptures, I find the extraordinary. Before Bethlehem, He was in heaven, majestically extraordinary. Then He became like us...ordinary. Yet, as He moved through the pages of the Gospels, He did and said extraordinary things. He did what was beyond commonplace. He took effort that others neglected. He loved the unlovely. He gave sacrificially.

And then He invested Himself inside us with the gift of salvation and the inner presence of Himself by the Holy Spirit. We have the possibility of being EXTRAORDINARY today!

Take a look at this one-minute message from John Maxwell. Will you reach for the extraordinary today?

If Jesus was pastoring my church...

2011-04-03T07:09:00.000-04:00

Jesus is the GREAT SHEPHERD. I'm so glad He loves the world...died for the world...and wants the whole world to experience new, eternal life through Him.

But, I'm thinking in a different direction right now. What if Jesus was the pastor of my physical, local church? Would He make the "Top 10 Successful Pastors' of America" list? I'm just wondering...

How would He spend His time? In hours of strategic, goal-setting, marketing meetings?
What kind of hairstyle would He sport?
Would He pray to the Father to remove certain people from the congregation?
Would He have a facebook page?
What would His office look like?
Would there be special lighting on His stage....if He had a stage?
What would He preach about?
Would people be able to talk to Him after the services were over?
Would He make hospital visits?
What would be His favorite worship music style?
Would He have a favorite worship song?
How would He prepare for Easter Sunday's attendance?
What would His church building look like--I wonder what color scheme He would choose?...Would He even have a church building?
What kind of salary would He demand?
Would He be bi-vocational?
Would He lead missions trips?
How would He take an offering?
Would He ever lead worship Himself?
How would He treat the seniors in the congregation?
From which version of the Bible would He preach?
Would He organize a ministry to feed the homeless?
Would He have bodyguards to protect Him from the congregants?
Would He enter into worship, or would He make a grand entrance into the sanctuary after the worship was over?
Hmmmm....I have lots more questions. And I have some of my answers. And I'm a bit sad, because I think in many cases we're not doing church like Jesus would do church. (But it's OK. We've been to the conferences and learned how to do it better, right?)

Would Jesus work to wow the crowds? Or would he focus on the individual?

It's Time to Dream!

2011-04-02T07:56:00.000-04:00

I love to dream. Oh, I'm not talking about nighttime sleepy kinds of dreams. Rather, I'm thinking about visionary dreams.

Knowing that we serve an unlimited God, who has given us brilliant minds (of which we use only a fractional percent), and who has placed Himself inside of us...I wonder why we place narrow limits on our todays and tomorrows?

How many times I've heard, "This is just the way things are always going to be." "I don't have any special talents, and I'm not going to be any better than I am right now." "What, ME dream? Are you kidding? Nothing special has ever happened for me in the past. Why would I expect anything different?"

Look around, technology is changing every hour. Inventions, conceived in the minds of faraway men and women, are becoming reality and they are changing our lives right where we live. Some people, especially in my generation and older, don't like technology. They're intimidated by it because it contains too many "unknowns."

Bottom line? We're reticent to change. Change takes us into unknown territories. It challenges us to expand our mental, personal, and social paradigms; and THAT requires WORK.

I'm desperately trying to learn all that I can about technology that will assist me in Kingdom work. Boy, do I have a lot to learn, but, it's exciting! Remember that a few days ago I posted my love of office supplies? Now, the office supply stores have become even better--there's half of the store that is filled with technology. Oh, I love to find those particular stores who have no pushy salespeople. Then I can browse and read all about the features each computer, printer, ipod, ipad, e-reader....and more.

And I dream...

See, the bottom line is living in the current culture, using the current communication methods, to share about a timeless Savior who loves each person in this current generation. God is so creatively providing new tools ALL THE TIME for the command that He gave, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to EVERY person..."

When I see a new piece of technology enter the market, my first thought is, "Oh, that is so cool!" My second thought is, "How could we use that to expand the Kingdom of God?" Please. I'm not super-spiritual or anything. I'm just driven by His command. Period.

I keep dreaming...

And when I hear someone say, "I don't believe in all this modern day technology," I think, "Hmmm, you're like an athiest who doesn't believe in God. It doesn't change the fact that He and it are real."

When I hear the criticism, "We shouldn't allow this new technology into the church," I think, "Well, we better close our doors then, because this generation = technology. We're all about reaching this generation."

I choose to be one of those "technology-toting grandmas." My only problem is that the newest items cost big bucks, and I wrestle with the destinations of my dollars. But I've discovered that God gives wisdom on this spending...and He places technology gifts on the hearts of generous friends. Most of the techno pieces that I have are gifts from friends. (Thanks, guys!)

Before I close for today, I want to post a video from Corning R&D. Love, love, love it!!! I don't ever want to be an antique sitting in the corner all dusty and rusty. How about you?